We are going forward with IVF but are trying to decide on paying per cycle or doing the multi cycle discount which offers two fresh cycles and unlimited frozens provided you had some to freeze from the fresh. Sounds great but I am wondering if you end up with extras usually. I know everyone is different but would love to know if anyone on here is 40 or over and did IVF and got frozen embryos from their fresh cycles. Thx!
Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
Re: Over 40 IVF how many embryos?
Eager to hear the answers you get! I'm 41 and we just paid for Attain (is that what you got?) We figured with the statistics, it was better to be safe and prepare for multi-cycles. In addition...it opened up a very healthy discount on meds for us (we are paying for this 100% as our insurance does not cover it). Plus...we had already decided that if there are extras that we are not wanting to move forward with, there are so many couples in desperate need of donor embies...we'd be honored to help by donating ours to them.
Best of luck to you!
BTW...I start my meds on Saturday (in suppression mode right now).
I am 43 and just finished up my egg retrieval. My doctor retrieved 8 mature follies and we were able to freeze 3 blasts. This was my first and only cycle, so it is possible....and, like the other person said, you can donate your extras, if, you are ok with that....
Best of luck to you and keep us posted on what you decide.
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I would ask your RE his/her opinion based on the results of your lab work. I know many ladies who don't have too many embries after 40, but I have seen some ladies have 40-50 eggs at retrieval (although this is not the norm!) I started my 1st IVF cycle at 40, always had
embries to transfer. I would be cautious about putting all your $$$ into a multi-cycle discount program if that is all your $$. If there's ANY chance that you might consider DE in the future then it might be important to use your money wisely at this juncture. We had RE that suggested we move to DE right after our first cancelled IVF cycle, he knew and was telling it like it is.....after much heartache and discussion that is the route we needed to get our BFP. We fired that RE and moved onto different RE. I tend to be blunt and straightforward, but I wish that I could have seen my 3+ year TTC journey before it began...might have choosen to proceed differently. That said, I hope that you are one of the lucky ones that gets PG using IVF on your first attempt. GL!! and I hope to see you on PG after 35 soon!
I would crunch some numbers if i were you on multicycle plan costs vs what 2 fresh cycles would cost. I considered in my number crunching for the attain multicycle plan as a minimum 2 fresh cycle attempt, the frozen cycles, if there were any, would be bonus.
My RE thought we would be good candidates for success when we did ivf. We had good numbers and I was only 37. I was unproven though in response as I had never done a medicated cycle before. With the great expense of IVF and also wanting to avoid twins, I just could not go forward without a guarantee of more than one shot on goal, so we decided to go with the multicycle plan with attain.
I seriously though my cycle was doomed when I only had 9 mature eggs retrieved and 6 fertilized. The RE pushed us to do a 3 day transfer of 2 embryos. We did the 3 day transfer with just one embryo as we had planned and that is now DS. What was a pleasant surprise is that we had 3 nice blasts to freeze on day 5 or 6. The majority of cycles, even with young people, do not have any quality embryos left over to freeze.
So even though we "overpaid" by buying the multicycle plan and having success on the first try, I am still glad I went that route.
IVF #1 ET 1 d3 embryo 10/30/11 BFP
3 Embryos frozen (1 d5, 2 d6)
DS born 07/29/12
FET #1 ET 1 d5 embryo 02/10/15 BFN
FET #2 1 d6 embryo didn't survive thaw, transferred last d6. CP
Hi--
I am 41 and will be doing FET on Monday. I had 28 follicles, 13 eggs retrieved, 11 fertilized and they froze 5 embryos. (They were afraid I would have OHSS) No ICSI or assisted hatching necessary. I only wanted between 5-7 frozen embryos anyways since we will do FET with all of them whether I get pregnant or not, so we were pretty happy with the results.
Hmmm interesting. So sort or using the IUI as a test run? Even though my h was low motility? I have heard such negatives about IUI after 40. That it's a waist. But I never thought about using it to see how I respond to meds. I hate thinking the first IVF might be a waist if we only have two.