Can't believe I'm here...but here goes. Two weeks ago on May 17th (at 21 weeks) we went for an ultrasound to find out the sex of our baby. Instead we found out there was no heartbeat. My baby had died over 3 weeks earlier and I didn't even know it. I got no answers about the cause but that seems to be pretty common when I read some of your stories.
I haven't figured out yet how to answer the question "How are you doing?' when somebody asks me for an update. My baby died 2 weeks ago but I'm just peachy, thanks for asking *sarcasm. I usually just say that I'm doing ok considering the situation and thank them for checking on me. I know they are genuinely concerned but I don't know if they want to hear the truth.
I just wanted to say that as much as I hate to be a part of "this group", you ladies all seem really awesome and supportive and I'm looking forward to being a part of that. I'm so sorry to read about everybody else's losses but its nice to not feel so alone in this.