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WHY?!?!

...Do some women on here feel the need to make someone feel bad about their posts when there is nothing to feel bad about?

I have seen so many innocent posts asking questions about pregnancy and seen some of these ladies be so vicious and mean to people for no reason.

I think if it makes you feel good to sit behind a computer and belittle innocent people for no reason on the internet you have the problem

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Re: WHY?!?!

  • On this board?

    "I stammered, unable to form a coherent thought because I have a vagina."

     

     

  • You'll have to be more specific, OP. 

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  • Not this board specifically. I meant TheBump forums in general.

    For example,

    A woman posted saying that her friends want to throw her a babyshower. She has one child who an older child. She innocently asked if others would agree to the shower if they already had a child who was older (around 9ish)

    She got called names/tacky/gift grabby. Someone even commented "what the hell is wrong with your brain"

     

     Another example,

    A girl posted asking what the miscarriage percentage was for about 5 week pregnancy. One woman commented that she was lazy for not researching it and its a stupid question.

  • Welcome to the Bump.

    Also, were "a woman"  and "a girl" you?

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    Welcome to the Bump.

    Also, were "a woman"  and "a girl" you?

    Nope.

  • image CinemaGoddess:

    Welcome to the Bump.

    Also, were "a woman"  and "a girl" you?

    Nope.

  • Ok then.

    Welcome to the Bump.  That is what it's like here. 

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  • I'm going to guess if the baby shower question was asked here the response would be something like this: As long as it is a One Direction themed baby shower, it is perfectly acceptable.

     

    See, no hatefulness here in South Beach. Hang out here and feel the love and hot boys surround you.  

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  • What CG said. FTR, those aren't stupid questions. Some people are just like that. I'd refrain from venting using the pronoun "you" on this board, though. Those women aren't us and there could be some confusion and hurt feelings there.
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  • I need to go to south beach haha. Well I just meant that people that act that way. And hey, if you ladies are nice and cool..I think ill stick around here more. Itd be nice to be able to chit chat with other grown women without all the HS bs.

     

  • The high school antics we partake in are fangirling over boybands. But we're all grown women with children (and yes, Wino's French Bulldog counts as her child!) and One Direction are all grown azz men. So yeah.

    Come chill with us and soak up some sun. We're very puppy dogs and rainbows in here with the occasional snark and geeking out. 

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    The high school antics we partake in are fangirling over boybands. But we're all grown women with children (and yes, Wino's French Bulldog counts as her child!) and One Direction are all grown azz men. So yeah.

    Come chill with us and soak up some sun. We're very puppy dogs and rainbows in here with the occasional snark and geeking out. 

    Well in that case, I use to be ga ga over N Sync. Don't know much about modern boy bands..maybe ill learn

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    I need to go to south beach haha. Well I just meant that people that act that way. And hey, if you ladies are nice and cool..I think ill stick around here more. Itd be nice to be able to chit chat with other grown women without all the HS bs.

     

     

    what are your feelings on the 1d boys? Most bang able is a question asked of most newbies to SB. 

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    The high school antics we partake in are fangirling over boybands. But we're all grown women with children (and yes, Wino's French Bulldog counts as her child!) and One Direction are all grown azz men. So yeah.

    Come chill with us and soak up some sun. We're very puppy dogs and rainbows in here with the occasional snark and geeking out. 

    Well in that case, I use to be ga ga over N Sync. Don't know much about modern boy bands..maybe ill learn

    I love you already. My life plan was to marry Justin Timberlake. Screw college and a job...I was gonna marry Justin.

     http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36mCEZzzQ3o&list=PL4HO1ECUJnwbXOI7tmtjcJA-6LwzoFT3_

    Watch that video and report back. 

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  • Just watched the video. That was the first time I have even heard of them.

    They are teens so I feel kinda weird saying it but I think the blondish boy is the cutest

  • They are not teens...all are well over 18 so fan girl away!

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    They are not teens...all are well over 18 so fan girl away!

     

    haha yall are dorks... does anyone else like the blonde boy too?

  • The youngest is 19. Two of them (two of them, including the blonde, who is Niall) are turning 20 this summer, and the other two are in their twenties. Don't feel icky or anything. It's perfectly acceptable to fangirl!
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  • Mackalien likes Niall. Like, she LOVES Niall. You have exceptional taste!
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    image dholsapp:
    They are not teens...all are well over 18 so fan girl away!

     

    haha yall are dorks... does anyone else like the blonde boy too?

    Thats Niall. How do you feel about tank tops? 

    "I stammered, unable to form a coherent thought because I have a vagina."

     

     

  • The only thing to be careful of with Niall is his awful obsession with tank tops...there is hope for him though. 

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  • I'm just going to believe that he's going to outgrow them.

     

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  • image thepretzelchick:
    Mackalien likes Niall. Like, she LOVES Niall. You have exceptional taste!

     

    so funny how yall know so much about them. I still listen to BSB and N sync on cds and my phone

  • image thepretzelchick:
    Mackalien likes Niall. Like, she LOVES Niall. You have exceptional taste!

     

    so funny how yall know so much about them. I still listen to BSB and N sync on cds and my phone

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    image Shopaholic30:

    image dholsapp:
    They are not teens...all are well over 18 so fan girl away!

     

    haha yall are dorks... does anyone else like the blonde boy too?

    Thats Niall. How do you feel about tank tops? 

     

    i like that we are thinking alike tonight...I can't wait to spend all day here now that school is out!  

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  • There's nothing wrong with the tank tops

    "I stammered, unable to form a coherent thought because I have a vagina."

     

     

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    I'm just going to believe that he's going to outgrow them.

     

     

    he needs to wear more suits...that boy is fiiiiiiiiine in a suit. ***see BadBettys siggy*** 

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  • im not a fan of tank tops on men. At home lounging is cool but for some reason I think sporting them in public is weird
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    Right past the fireflies that sleep in my heart." - Vampire Weekend
    "So if you dare to second guess, you can rest assured that all my love's for you.
    My beating heart belongs to you." - Billie Joe Armstrong
    "So don't don't don't get up. I can't see the sunshine. I'll be waiting for you, baby--
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    "Oh Bryn, you see through the dark
    Right past the fireflies that sleep in my heart." - Vampire Weekend
    "So if you dare to second guess, you can rest assured that all my love's for you.
    My beating heart belongs to you." - Billie Joe Armstrong
    "So don't don't don't get up. I can't see the sunshine. I'll be waiting for you, baby--
    'cause I'm through." - Julian Casablancas

    Follow me on Tumblr!

    Black Out: my work-in-progress

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    image Shopaholic30:
    im not a fan of tank tops on men. At home lounging is cool but for some reason I think sporting them in public is weird
    You speak truth, my friend.

     

    i have to agree with this too. 

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    09/2011- Miscarriage at 10 1/2 weeks
    11/2011- FET
    01/2012- Start Home Study process
    03/2012- Home Study approved and now waiting on our child to find us!
    07/2012- matched with a BM who is due in October!
    11/10/12- our son is born!
    11/13/12- court grants us custody!
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  • Is it just me or did AJ from the BSB always sound and look too old to be in that band?
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    "Oh Bryn, you see through the dark
    Right past the fireflies that sleep in my heart." - Vampire Weekend
    "So if you dare to second guess, you can rest assured that all my love's for you.
    My beating heart belongs to you." - Billie Joe Armstrong
    "So don't don't don't get up. I can't see the sunshine. I'll be waiting for you, baby--
    'cause I'm through." - Julian Casablancas

    Follow me on Tumblr!

    Black Out: my work-in-progress

    Fun Direction
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    image  image

    "Oh Bryn, you see through the dark
    Right past the fireflies that sleep in my heart." - Vampire Weekend
    "So if you dare to second guess, you can rest assured that all my love's for you.
    My beating heart belongs to you." - Billie Joe Armstrong
    "So don't don't don't get up. I can't see the sunshine. I'll be waiting for you, baby--
    'cause I'm through." - Julian Casablancas

    Follow me on Tumblr!

    Black Out: my work-in-progress

    Fun Direction
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    I believe this is relevant to your interests. 

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  • This is a big NO:

     

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    This is a big YES:

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    P.S. His tank top is 100% acceptable.

     

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    09/2011- Miscarriage at 10 1/2 weeks
    11/2011- FET
    01/2012- Start Home Study process
    03/2012- Home Study approved and now waiting on our child to find us!
    07/2012- matched with a BM who is due in October!
    11/10/12- our son is born!
    11/13/12- court grants us custody!
     12/28/12- finalization! Always ours in our hearts, but.now also ours forever

                           

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                     http://keepingupwiththejoneses-dana.blogspot.com/

     
  • image Shopaholic30:
    im not a fan of tank tops on men. At home lounging is cool but for some reason I think sporting them in public is weird

    You're going to want to like someone other than Niall

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    "I stammered, unable to form a coherent thought because I have a vagina."

     

     

  • NIALL IS ACCEPTABLE IN TANK TOPS

    Don't make me do a Niall tank top appreciation post. I'll bring Mack and Claire in on it. They understand.

    "I stammered, unable to form a coherent thought because I have a vagina."

     

     

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