Not sure if I'm overthinking this or what. And this may be a silly question.
But what options do NCP have when the CP moves or switches school districts? FI and BM have 50/50 schedule - 7 days on, 7 off. Right now we are driving 30 min to take SS's to school on our weeks which is no big deal.
BM's FI has 2 kids (unsure of thier schedule w/ them) and all 4 go to school together. The other 2 kids may be switching districts next year; BM is considering moving SS's so everyone can continue at the same school. This would result in an even further drive for us
We are also hoping to purchase a house in the next year or so. This will likely have to be further out than we are now, about 20 min in the opposite direction of here putting us even futher out. We've talked - a 45 min drive daily EOW is doable.
But what happens to us if BM continues to move districts or moves futher away? It makes me kind of nervous to purchase a home b/c once we are there I have no intention of moving if I can help it. And losing time w/ SS's isn't an option. We look forward to our next week as soon as they leave. It would just suck terribly if they were in a car an hour and a half each way. Could we legally do anything about it since they evenly split the time? Or do we just have to deal since FI is the NCP?
Does all my rambling make sense? Anyone else been in a similar situation?