DH started talking about getting a vasectomy last night. His reasoning made sense that we have met our deductible for the year so insurance would cover it. I am not sure I want to be done though. Yes we have a girl and a boy but I don't want to think that I never will feel a baby flutter or kick ever again. Yes two hours after I had DD I said no more kids but I had just had a baby come out my vag with no pain meds. We have talked about adopting but it is SO expensive. I don't know what the point is to this posti just had to put these thoughts out there.