First, I've posted several questions here lately and am really grateful for people's input - it has really helped me in my day care search.
Now on to today's question -
Some background - DH and I have been looking for an infant daycare for the last month or so. We pretty much have agreed upon center-care, not because I'm against family day cares but because the ones we've seen that can accommodate our schedule have not been ones we've felt great about. BUT the centers are expensive that we are really concerned about the impact that will have on our ability to take care of other family needs I just saw another center that is more affordable. There were things I loved about it (which mostly had to do with their toddler/preschool program) and the references I spoke to were extremely positive about the center and the director, but here's my concern with the infant care -- I need feedback, please!!! The infants start out in a room with 10 infants and 3 staff. As the babies get around 7 months or so, they generally transition to another classroom with older infants 7-15 months. To me, this seems like a lot of caregivers (although the turnover in staff is low) Does anyone have experience or thoughts regarding the pros and cons of this arrangement? TIA.
Re: infant transitions? (long - sorry)
I'm a little confused about your question. Are you concerned about the infant:teacher ratio? Because I think 10:3 is pretty good. Or is it the older classroom you're concerned about? What is the ratio in that room? Is the staff of 3 always the same 3 teachers, or do they rotate?
Where DS goes to daycare, the ratio is 4:1, and there are 8 infants and 2 teachers in each class. There is a 0-6 month class, and then a 6-10 month class. His teachers are always the same, except for at lunchtime, when they have subs come in so his teachers can take lunch.
In my son's daycare, they transition to a new room at a year, where all the kids are between 12 and 24 months.
If you're concerned about your baby transitioning at 7 months, honestly I think that would be easier on a 7 month old than on a one year old! It's usually around 8 months that stranger/separation anxiety sets in, so think of it this way - your baby's transition to a new caregiver will be smooth. For my son, when he transitions, it's going to be very difficult to leave his two current caregivers behind.
I kind of wish our daycare did that - my DS really needs some older playmates at daycare, especially since he's the only walker in his room.
I'm not sure I would worry too much about the transition -- that is just before (from what I have read) that babies really start with separation anxiety, so it seems unlikely your dc would really notice or care at that age. ?In some ways, there is such a huge difference between a 3-month- old and a 9-month-old that it is nice that they will be in different rooms -- our dd's first transition will be at 18 months, which is nice, but on the other hand, she will be in a room with kids a lot older than her at first.
?I don't think there is a perfect solution or a reason to really worry about it -- I'd say, if you like the center, go for it! ??
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DD basically had a transition every 6 months in her first year at daycare and she did just fine. With the transition from the younger infant room to the older infant room, they integrated some of the kids and teachers early. For example, the crawlers in the young infant room would play with the older infants and their teachers once a day. And when DD transitioned from the older infant room to the toddler room, one of the student teachers from the older infant room moved over with them for a few months to help them be comfortable.
As long as the transitions are handled with respect for the kids adjustment, I wouldn't be worried about 6 caregivers in the first year.
Our daycare has 0-12 months in one room. They all are fed and sleep on demand. At 1 year (or when the kiddo is ready), they move to the next room, where they are much more scheduled and all nap at the same time. I have heard it's a pretty rough transition from infant room to toddler room for a lot of kids. I like the idea of the 7-15 month room.
Plus, sometimes I feel a little bad for DS. He can't crawl or sit up or even roll that well, so when a couple of the other kids can crawl, he seems kind of defenseless!