Poof another one gone!

stepper1725

scatteredtrees:

stepper1725:

Alicia is also the mod of the june 12 board. Her MO is to to delete posts and then when people call her out on it she claims she's not able to delete posts as mod. She also locks posts. Sorry you guys have to deal with her as your mod too. We've been trying to get rid of her by complaining to the bump to no avail.

I still have no idea why she was put as a mod on a board she never posted on. Her first few days here she went delete happy and I'm pretty sure she was called on it and lied.

Isn't ther some sort of 'council of mods'? Why is it so hard to remove someone who obviously isn't cut out to be a moderator?  

bumpuser8448316

TobeMrs.Shavers:

scatteredtrees:

stepper1725:

Alicia is also the mod of the june 12 board. Her MO is to to delete posts and then when people call her out on it she claims she's not able to delete posts as mod. She also locks posts. Sorry you guys have to deal with her as your mod too. We've been trying to get rid of her by complaining to the bump to no avail.

I still have no idea why she was put as a mod on a board she never posted on. Her first few days here she went delete happy and I'm pretty sure she was called on it and lied.

To clarify: I brought her on as Co-Mod, it was my choice. She had been posting (and was VERY popular with this board and several others) for months before I asked her to Co-Mod with me. I never made a huge announcement about it because it wasn't a big deal.

I'm sorry everyone is so upset with her (I post back on page 2 about it). I'm doing everything I can to resolve this so the board can move on. 

 

Yeah, to be honest, even though at this point I think she needs to be removed as a mod, I knew who she was before she became a mod. I'd seen her posting here enough to know she wasn't a total unknown.

Question about mod-deletes: shouldn't you delete the post and then list a reason why? In this case, it just looks shady, but in other cases maybe the poster doesn't really know why their post was deleted and will continue to make the same mistakes. I think if whoever deleted it had addressed the reason why, this wouldn't have turned into quite the shittstorm it has.

mandymack

QueSyrah:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

scatteredtrees:

stepper1725:

Alicia is also the mod of the june 12 board. Her MO is to to delete posts and then when people call her out on it she claims she's not able to delete posts as mod. She also locks posts. Sorry you guys have to deal with her as your mod too. We've been trying to get rid of her by complaining to the bump to no avail.

I still have no idea why she was put as a mod on a board she never posted on. Her first few days here she went delete happy and I'm pretty sure she was called on it and lied.

To clarify: I brought her on as Co-Mod, it was my choice. She had been posting (and was VERY popular with this board and several others) for months before I asked her to Co-Mod with me. I never made a huge announcement about it because it wasn't a big deal.

I'm sorry everyone is so upset with her (I post back on page 2 about it). I'm doing everything I can to resolve this so the board can move on. 

 

Yeah, to be honest, even though at this point I think she needs to be removed as a mod, I knew who she was before she became a mod. I'd seen her posting here enough to know she wasn't a total unknown.

Question about mod-deletes: shouldn't you delete the post and then list a reason why? In this case, it just looks shady, but in other cases maybe the poster doesn't really know why their post was deleted and will continue to make the same mistakes. I think if whoever deleted it had addressed the reason why, this wouldn't have turned into quite the shittstorm it has.

Thank you for your feedback, really appreciate it!

I can't speak on behalf of any other Mod; however, for me, when I delete a post, I always put the reason. In 5 years I have ONLY ever deleted spam. I've never had a reason to delete anything else.

Regarding all the deletions today, I have reached out to AliciaS and Bump Jackie privately and on our Moderators forum and have yet to hear back. I don't know who's deleting the posts or their exact reasons why. Back a page or two I posted my email address: TobeMrs.Shavers@gmail.com for ANYONE to email me at any time if you feel your post was inappropriately removed and/or if you get banned. It's the ONLY way I can help you. 

Notwifezilla7

Glad to see you Mrs Shavers! Sorry it's under these circumstances. 

bumpuser8448316

TobeMrs.Shavers:

QueSyrah:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

scatteredtrees:

stepper1725:

Alicia is also the mod of the june 12 board. Her MO is to to delete posts and then when people call her out on it she claims she's not able to delete posts as mod. She also locks posts. Sorry you guys have to deal with her as your mod too. We've been trying to get rid of her by complaining to the bump to no avail.

I still have no idea why she was put as a mod on a board she never posted on. Her first few days here she went delete happy and I'm pretty sure she was called on it and lied.

To clarify: I brought her on as Co-Mod, it was my choice. She had been posting (and was VERY popular with this board and several others) for months before I asked her to Co-Mod with me. I never made a huge announcement about it because it wasn't a big deal.

I'm sorry everyone is so upset with her (I post back on page 2 about it). I'm doing everything I can to resolve this so the board can move on. 

 

Yeah, to be honest, even though at this point I think she needs to be removed as a mod, I knew who she was before she became a mod. I'd seen her posting here enough to know she wasn't a total unknown.

Question about mod-deletes: shouldn't you delete the post and then list a reason why? In this case, it just looks shady, but in other cases maybe the poster doesn't really know why their post was deleted and will continue to make the same mistakes. I think if whoever deleted it had addressed the reason why, this wouldn't have turned into quite the shittstorm it has.

Thank you for your feedback, really appreciate it!

I can't speak on behalf of any other Mod; however, for me, when I delete a post, I always put the reason. In 5 years I have ONLY ever deleted spam. I've never had a reason to delete anything else.

Regarding all the deletions today, I have reached out to AliciaS and Bump Jackie privately and on our Moderators forum and have yet to hear back. I don't know who's deleting the posts or their exact reasons why. Back a page or two I posted my email address: TobeMrs.Shavers@gmail.com for ANYONE to email me at any time if you feel your post was inappropriately removed and/or if you get banned. It's the ONLY way I can help you. 

Just wanted to say that I'm sorry you got caught up in this. 

mandymack

Notwifezilla7:

Glad to see you Mrs Shavers! Sorry it's under these circumstances. 

Always happy to see you, too!

It's the job I volunteered for. I just hate that this is happening. 

mandymack

QueSyrah:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

QueSyrah:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

scatteredtrees:

stepper1725:

Alicia is also the mod of the june 12 board. Her MO is to to delete posts and then when people call her out on it she claims she's not able to delete posts as mod. She also locks posts. Sorry you guys have to deal with her as your mod too. We've been trying to get rid of her by complaining to the bump to no avail.

I still have no idea why she was put as a mod on a board she never posted on. Her first few days here she went delete happy and I'm pretty sure she was called on it and lied.

To clarify: I brought her on as Co-Mod, it was my choice. She had been posting (and was VERY popular with this board and several others) for months before I asked her to Co-Mod with me. I never made a huge announcement about it because it wasn't a big deal.

I'm sorry everyone is so upset with her (I post back on page 2 about it). I'm doing everything I can to resolve this so the board can move on. 

 

Yeah, to be honest, even though at this point I think she needs to be removed as a mod, I knew who she was before she became a mod. I'd seen her posting here enough to know she wasn't a total unknown.

Question about mod-deletes: shouldn't you delete the post and then list a reason why? In this case, it just looks shady, but in other cases maybe the poster doesn't really know why their post was deleted and will continue to make the same mistakes. I think if whoever deleted it had addressed the reason why, this wouldn't have turned into quite the shittstorm it has.

Thank you for your feedback, really appreciate it!

I can't speak on behalf of any other Mod; however, for me, when I delete a post, I always put the reason. In 5 years I have ONLY ever deleted spam. I've never had a reason to delete anything else.

Regarding all the deletions today, I have reached out to AliciaS and Bump Jackie privately and on our Moderators forum and have yet to hear back. I don't know who's deleting the posts or their exact reasons why. Back a page or two I posted my email address: TobeMrs.Shavers@gmail.com for ANYONE to email me at any time if you feel your post was inappropriately removed and/or if you get banned. It's the ONLY way I can help you. 

Just wanted to say that I'm sorry you got caught up in this. 

So sweet, thank you! It's no problem at all, this is what I signed up for  

Andrewsgal

I apologize that you had to get involved. On the other hand this might be the only way to get rod of Alicia as a mod. The June board has been asking for a long time.

mandymack

Andrewsgal:

I apologize that you had to get involved. On the other hand this might be the only way to get rod of Alicia as a mod. The June board has been asking for a long time.

Thank you!

hjk5000

letranger:

Also. Why did this go down while hanging with my mil. Pouts!

Seriously! My kid has been sick and I keep having to play catch up. I can't believe all this craziness. 

WhyyesthisisanAE

I Heart The 80s:

letranger:

nowababy:

crystalite2004:

But it's ok to post photos of teenage girls in spandex. Ok then.. And lol at the phrase common sense. Obviously that is lacking.

 True story. 

Not going to lie I thought that was so odd. I'd never post other people's children on here.

I need to grow a pair. I always wanted to ask if their parents knew their children were on a public message board, but I worried about being mean. Whatever. Now I know I need to go with my gut and, as I just stated, grow a HUGE pair. 

Ok, let's say with all the knowledge I happened upon when googling, I found out which organization she does color guard at. Would it be inappropriate of me to send an anonymous email to a director, or someone higher up with a linky so they are aware? Is this taking it too far? Because frankly I am a little worried about it, and as a parent I would like it if someone thought enough to forward some knowledge like that.

Andrewsgal

WhyyesthisisanAE:

I Heart The 80s:

letranger:

nowababy:

crystalite2004:

But it's ok to post photos of teenage girls in spandex. Ok then..

And lol at the phrase common sense. Obviously that is lacking.

 True story. 

Not going to lie I thought that was so odd. I'd never post other people's children on here.

I need to grow a pair. I always wanted to ask if their parents knew their children were on a public message board, but I worried about being mean. Whatever. Now I know I need to go with my gut and, as I just stated, grow a HUGE pair. 

Ok, let's say with all the knowledge I happened upon when googling, I found out which organization she does color guard at. Would it be inappropriate of me to send an anonymous email to a director, or someone higher up with a linky so they are aware? Is this taking it too far? Because frankly I am a little worried about it, and as a parent I would like it if someone thought enough to forward some knowledge like that.

IDK part of me says too far. The other part of me says as a patent I would want to know. I assume she is also posting these pictures on her FB page witch this sex offender has access to through his wife. She admitted she chats on FB a lot with this chick.

andrewsmom12

Hasn't she also admitted to having taken her son around the pedophile? 

Andrewsgal

andrewsmom12:

Hasn't she also admitted to having taken her son around the pedophile?nbsp;

Yes she said in her MIA post that she and her family just got back from spending time with them.

andrewsmom12

Andrewsgal:

andrewsmom12:

Hasn't she also admitted to having taken her son around the pedophile?nbsp;

Yes she said in her MIA post that she and her family just got back from spending time with them.

This is sickening to me. Just sickening. At the very least, her husband should be made aware. 

PMA91

If the post had been of younger kids you'd absolutely do it, right? Don't feel conflicted, they're still kids who probably have no idea that their images are floating around (although I'm sure high school kids probably don't care as much). They have a right to be protected. Capture the old post if you can find it.

WhyyesthisisanAE

PMA91:

If the post had been of younger kids you'd absolutely do it, right? Don't feel conflicted, they're still kids who probably have no idea that their images are floating around (although I'm sure high school kids probably don't care as much). They have a right to be protected. Capture the old post if you can find it.

I can't find it all, even with my expert googling skills. 

abbyhannah8

Lurking from June 2012. If you ladies are able to get Alicia removed as your mod please give us your secret! We have been trying for A LONG time! We even had someone else volunteer to be the mod and nothing has happened!

Andrewsgal

abbyhannah8:

Lurking from June 2012. If you ladies are able to get Alicia removed as your mod please give us your secret! We have been trying for A LONG time! We even had someone else volunteer to be the mod and nothing has happened!

I am thinking after this she might not be a mod for anyone. Or at least I hope so. She needs to get her stuff together before she is a mod,

Andrewsgal

WhyyesthisisanAE:

PMA91:

If the post had been of younger kids you'd absolutely do it, right? Don't feel conflicted, they're still kids who probably have no idea that their images are floating around (although I'm sure high school kids probably don't care as much). They have a right to be protected. Capture the old post if you can find it.

I can't find it all, even with my expert googling skills. 

I wonder if she deleted it. I bet she did after today.

abbyhannah8

Andrewsgal:

abbyhannah8:

Lurking from June 2012. If you ladies are able to get Alicia removed as your mod please give us your secret! We have been trying for A LONG time! We even had someone else volunteer to be the mod and nothing has happened!

I am thinking after this she might not be a mod for anyone. Or at least I hope so. She needs to get her stuff together before she is a mod,

 

I hope not! She is also the mod on the Cloth Diapering page. 

WhyyesthisisanAE

Andrewsgal:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

PMA91:

If the post had been of younger kids you'd absolutely do it, right? Don't feel conflicted, they're still kids who probably have no idea that their images are floating around (although I'm sure high school kids probably don't care as much). They have a right to be protected. Capture the old post if you can find it.

I can't find it all, even with my expert googling skills. 

I wonder if she deleted it. I bet she did after today.

I think she did, I can't find it anywhere. 

crystalite2004

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Andrewsgal:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

PMA91:

If the post had been of younger kids you'd absolutely do it, right? Don't feel conflicted, they're still kids who probably have no idea that their images are floating around (although I'm sure high school kids probably don't care as much). They have a right to be protected. Capture the old post if you can find it.

I can't find it all, even with my expert googling skills. 

I wonder if she deleted it. I bet she did after today.

I think she did, I can't find it anywhere. 

I found a link to one but I don't know that I should post it? I can PM.

WhyyesthisisanAE

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

WhyyesthisisanAE

crystalite2004:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Andrewsgal:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

PMA91:

If the post had been of younger kids you'd absolutely do it, right? Don't feel conflicted, they're still kids who probably have no idea that their images are floating around (although I'm sure high school kids probably don't care as much). They have a right to be protected. Capture the old post if you can find it.

I can't find it all, even with my expert googling skills. 

I wonder if she deleted it. I bet she did after today.

I think she did, I can't find it anywhere. 

I found a link to one but I don't know that I should post it? I can PM.

You can PM me.

mandymack

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

WhyyesthisisanAE

Hav=Fath:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

For the record, I didn't say it was Alicia. 

I'm just saying, people have talked worse about me (actually calling me names) for saying I don't read all food labels. Everyone today is talking about genuine real concerns. Where were the mods when I was the bullied kid?  

Oops thats what I get for assuming. lol. oh well. 

FTR- Hav I agree with you.  There has been way way WAY worse going on. I really don't see how that post violated TOS. She was sharing her story, hardly bullying. 

And Hav creepy e-hugs. Sorry you've been bullied.

notkateanymore

Hav=Fath:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

For the record, I didn't say it was Alicia. 

I'm just saying, people have talked worse about me (actually calling me names) for saying I don't read all food labels. Everyone today is talking about genuine real concerns. Where were the mods when I was the bullied kid?  

ETA: I really don't want to get banned... please don't ban me. /  

Nobody has called you mentally ill or basically an unfit mother when you weren't here to defend yourself. No need to play the victim tonight, Hav.  

notkateanymore

amy052006:

Hav=Fath:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

For the record, I didn't say it was Alicia. 

I'm just saying, people have talked worse about me (actually calling me names) for saying I don't read all food labels. Everyone today is talking about genuine real concerns. Where were the mods when I was the bullied kid?  

ETA: I really don't want to get banned... please don't ban me. /  

OH FFS.

I am pretty sure, if The Bump is keeping with its standard MO, this isn't about Alicia.  It's about someone's personal info being shared -- even if said info is actual public in the first place.

It's not because people are "bullying" anyone. 

 

This too.  

Andrewsgal

Have I agree with you too. You have taken much more of a beating for a lot dumber stuff. I am sure the bump is not happy about the news paper article being shared, which is odd to me because it is a public article but whatever. 

Andrewsgal

KateMW:

Hav=Fath:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

For the record, I didn't say it was Alicia. 

I'm just saying, people have talked worse about me (actually calling me names) for saying I don't read all food labels. Everyone today is talking about genuine real concerns. Where were the mods when I was the bullied kid?  

ETA: I really don't want to get banned... please don't ban me. /  

Nobody has called you mentally ill or basically an unfit mother when you weren't here to defend yourself. No need to play the victim tonight, Hav.  

oh FFS she is here. She has been here all day. She is choosing not to defend herself. Alicia is not the victim here. 

notkateanymore

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

For the record, I didn't say it was Alicia. 

I'm just saying, people have talked worse about me (actually calling me names) for saying I don't read all food labels. Everyone today is talking about genuine real concerns. Where were the mods when I was the bullied kid?  

Oops thats what I get for assuming. lol. oh well. 

FTR- Hav I agree with you.  There has been way way WAY worse going on. I really don't see how that post violated TOS. She was sharing her story, hardly bullying. 

And Hav creepy e-hugs. Sorry you've been bullied.

You violated TOS when you posted a link with somebody real info, I think? Isn't that why you got banned? I doubt it was Alicia just for the hell of it, like all the conspiracy theorists think. I'm sure this has gotten much more attention from all the mods and when you post something with personal info you open the site and company up to all sorts of liability.  

notkateanymore

Andrewsgal:

KateMW:

Hav=Fath:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

For the record, I didn't say it was Alicia. 

I'm just saying, people have talked worse about me (actually calling me names) for saying I don't read all food labels. Everyone today is talking about genuine real concerns. Where were the mods when I was the bullied kid?  

ETA: I really don't want to get banned... please don't ban me. /  

Nobody has called you mentally ill or basically an unfit mother when you weren't here to defend yourself. No need to play the victim tonight, Hav.  

oh FFS she is here. She has been here all day. She is choosing not to defend herself. Alicia is not the victim here. 

Neither is Hav. I mean, come the *** on AG...you jump on Hav every time you get a chance and Alicia is usually one of the ones defending her...you don't find this whole response kind of odd? I have no doubt that Alicia was here reading all of this, but calling her mentally ill is way far over what has ever been said to Hav. Even by me and you.  

peacelove&mama

Jeez I sure picked the wrong day to clean my house.

Andrewsgal

KateMW:

Andrewsgal:

KateMW:

Hav=Fath:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

For the record, I didn't say it was Alicia. 

I'm just saying, people have talked worse about me (actually calling me names) for saying I don't read all food labels. Everyone today is talking about genuine real concerns. Where were the mods when I was the bullied kid?  

ETA: I really don't want to get banned... please don't ban me. /  

Nobody has called you mentally ill or basically an unfit mother when you weren't here to defend yourself. No need to play the victim tonight, Hav.  

oh FFS she is here. She has been here all day. She is choosing not to defend herself. Alicia is not the victim here. 

Neither is Hav. I mean, come the *** on AG...you jump on Hav every time you get a chance and Alicia is usually one of the ones defending her...you don't find this whole response kind of odd? I have no doubt that Alicia was here reading all of this, but calling her mentally ill is way far over what has ever been said to Hav. Even by me and you.  

No honestly I don't I admit to saying some over the top things to have. That being said she always comes back and defends herself. I do think there is so,etching going on with Alicia mentally. Who in their right mind would let their kids be around a registered sex offender? Especially someone with a history of a sexual attack like she claims. It makes no sense. I never said Alicia was a bad mom. I don't think she is. I do think she is making some very questionable decisions that could effect her son in the long run. 

notkateanymore

Andrewsgal:

KateMW:

Andrewsgal:

KateMW:

Hav=Fath:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

For the record, I didn't say it was Alicia. 

I'm just saying, people have talked worse about me (actually calling me names) for saying I don't read all food labels. Everyone today is talking about genuine real concerns. Where were the mods when I was the bullied kid?  

ETA: I really don't want to get banned... please don't ban me. /  

Nobody has called you mentally ill or basically an unfit mother when you weren't here to defend yourself. No need to play the victim tonight, Hav.  

oh FFS she is here. She has been here all day. She is choosing not to defend herself. Alicia is not the victim here. 

Neither is Hav. I mean, come the *** on AG...you jump on Hav every time you get a chance and Alicia is usually one of the ones defending her...you don't find this whole response kind of odd? I have no doubt that Alicia was here reading all of this, but calling her mentally ill is way far over what has ever been said to Hav. Even by me and you.  

No honestly I don't I admit to saying some over the top things to have. That being said she always comes back and defends herself. I do think there is so,etching going on with Alicia mentally. Who in their right mind would let their kids be around a registered sex offender? Especially someone with a history of a sexual attack like she claims. It makes no sense. I never said Alicia was a bad mom. I don't think she is. I do think she is making some very questionable decisions that could effect her son in the long run. 

I think it's a long jump from what we know to where y'all have gone today. That's the bottom line for me. There have been plenty of posts questioning her parenting because of decisions we THINK she made, etc. Also, it is never OK to call somebody mentally ill based on so little actual information. It's just ridiculous. FTR, I don't disagree with most of it, I just think it went to far.

Andrewsgal

KateMW:

Andrewsgal:

KateMW:

Andrewsgal:

KateMW:

Hav=Fath:

TobeMrs.Shavers:

WhyyesthisisanAE:

Hav=Fath:

Haha... even more lame that someone locked the ooooo alicia story thread.

Goodness, what is this woman's problem? She's crazy.

That was me. Thanks.

For the record, I didn't say it was Alicia. 

I'm just saying, people have talked worse about me (actually calling me names) for saying I don't read all food labels. Everyone today is talking about genuine real concerns. Where were the mods when I was the bullied kid?  

ETA: I really don't want to get banned... please don't ban me. /  

Nobody has called you mentally ill or basically an unfit mother when you weren't here to defend yourself. No need to play the victim tonight, Hav.  

oh FFS she is here. She has been here all day. She is choosing not to defend herself. Alicia is not the victim here. 

Neither is Hav. I mean, come the *** on AG...you jump on Hav every time you get a chance and Alicia is usually one of the ones defending her...you don't find this whole response kind of odd? I have no doubt that Alicia was here reading all of this, but calling her mentally ill is way far over what has ever been said to Hav. Even by me and you.  

No honestly I don't I admit to saying some over the top things to have. That being said she always comes back and defends herself. I do think there is so,etching going on with Alicia mentally. Who in their right mind would let their kids be around a registered sex offender? Especially someone with a history of a sexual attack like she claims. It makes no sense. I never said Alicia was a bad mom. I don't think she is. I do think she is making some very questionable decisions that could effect her son in the long run. 

I think it's a long jump from what we know to where y'all have gone today. That's the bottom line for me. There have been plenty of posts questioning her parenting because of decisions we THINK she made, etc. Also, it is never OK to call somebody mentally ill based on so little actual information. It's just ridiculous. FTR, I don't disagree with most of it, I just think it went to far.

I see what you are saying. 

notkateanymore

Diapers&Wipes:

Kate, I really like you...I hope that isn't too weird of a thing to say. Why are you defending her? At first I thought you were the ae and was trying to throw everyone off by telling everyone to back off but now I think you are seriously...what...annoyed that everyone won't back off. This board has beat a lot of dumb issues into the ground, pouches, cio, freaking dandelions for crying out loud. You seriously think this isn't going to go on and on and on. She brought this mess on herself. She could have kept the CIO post on June 2012. She could have left the visiting her BFF part out of her update. But she didn't. Why? She's a drama llama. So are a lot of people and they also get called of their hit. Also, hav has gotten a lot worse than being called mentally ill. Seriously. People basically call her dumb, sheltered....ignorant. That may not be worse to you but it's at least as bad to me. If someone called me ignorant we"d be close to fighting.

First off, not defending her. I just think everybody went too far with only having half the story. Calling somebody mentally ill is never OK and it's way worse than being called dumb, ignorant and sheltered. I don't disagree that she's made horrible decisions and I would never make them myself. I think it's nuts to bring your child around a man like that. I also don't think she should and can be the mod here anymore, she's burned this bridge. I just think people are piling on the drama to just pile on. I also think it's a little {a lot?} too much to bring her sexual assault into it and then make the conclusion that she must be "mentally ill" It's just too much.

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KateMW:

Diapers&Wipes:

Kate, I really like you...I hope that isn't too weird of a thing to say. Why are you defending her? At first I thought you were the ae and was trying to throw everyone off by telling everyone to back off but now I think you are seriously...what...annoyed that everyone won't back off. This board has beat a lot of dumb issues into the ground, pouches, cio, freaking dandelions for crying out loud. You seriously think this isn't going to go on and on and on. She brought this mess on herself. She could have kept the CIO post on June 2012. She could have left the visiting her BFF part out of her update. But she didn't. Why? She's a drama llama. So are a lot of people and they also get called of their hit. Also, hav has gotten a lot worse than being called mentally ill. Seriously. People basically call her dumb, sheltered....ignorant. That may not be worse to you but it's at least as bad to me. If someone called me ignorant we"d be close to fighting.

First off, not defending her. I just think everybody went too far with only having half the story. Calling somebody mentally ill is never OK and it's way worse than being called dumb, ignorant and sheltered. I don't disagree that she's made horrible decisions and I would never make them myself. I think it's nuts to bring your child around a man like that. I also don't think she should and can be the mod here anymore, she's burned this bridge. I just think people are piling on the drama to just pile on. I also think it's a little {a lot?} too much to bring her sexual assault into it and then make the conclusion that she must be "mentally ill" It's just too much.

I think I was the first one  that brought up her assault and mentioned that I think she needs mental help. I don't mean to say I think she's bipolar, schizophrenic or anything like that. Maybe I should have worded  it differently but I stand by my feeling that if she's been through that then she of all people should know to keep her kid away from that person.. And if she doesn't see the danger, then maybe she needs help from a professional. Therapist, counselor, etc.

I wasn't trying to insinuate that she is mentally ill. 

Andrewsgal

Okay I did bring up her sexual assault not in a mean way, but more to make the point that none of this makes sense. I have worked with children who have been victims of sexual abuse and have quite a few friends that were. The pain that this caused them has made me over the top when it comes to protecting my kids. That was my point that people who have been through something horrific usually do everything within their power to protect their kids from that. 

As far as assumptions. None of the actions described that Alicia too are assumptions. They are all information she put out there. Information she herself gave us or another board.