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BFN and potential break

Jen071407Jen071407 member
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14dpo and BFN this morning so I guess I'm just waiting on af. Having a hard time trying to decide what our next step will be. Part of me just wants to stop all of this emotional madness, but the rest of me knows I will regret not trying everything possible. I also just made plans with my family to take my girls to the cabin...only after I realized we will be gone right at O time. DH is a 1st year resident and can't take time off so we would be apart. I hate that ttc controls so much of what we do, and I don't want my daughters to miss out on fun because of it. Ugh. Next wtf appt is June 4th. Sorry this morphed into a bit of a vent!

Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
 3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • kofmkgkofmkg member
    Many hugs!  I can relate to almost everything- I'm sorry that we're in this same boat.

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  • mlampingmlamping member
    So sorry and sending hugs! 
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  • tryingyetagaintryingyetagain member

    I know exactly what you mean!  I want to stop the madness, and part of me will be relieved to give it up (we are stopping TTC after August if not pg by then).  But I know I would always regret it if we didn't try a couple more IUIs.  So we are soldiering on this summer with TTC.

    So sorry you were bfn.  It is devastating over and over, each month.  Hugs to you (and to all of us going through this stupid mess!).

    Me: 42. DH: 46.

    1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.

    2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.

    3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.

    4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.

    5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.

    Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN.  After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.

    August 16, 2013:  BFP our first month of "not trying!"  Still in shock.  Beta #1 (14dpo): 183.  Beta #2 (17dpo):  611.  Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm! 
    Ultrasound 9/13/13:  8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
    Baby is due 4/26/14

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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    Thanks ladies! I'm really hoping we get a set plan on how far we will take this as far as moving on to injects with IUI or IVF. I don't even know where to start in researching costs. Meh.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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