TTC after 35

latest update - *ticker*

Hi ladies,

Thanks for the shout out and cheers this week.  Another reminder of how much this board rocks!

We had our second u/s this morning and we saw a heartbeat!  This was a first for us - we've never made it that far - and it was breathtaking.  My husband started crying.  We are 6 1/2 weeks, which is what I thought going in.  

Jacque - I haven't intro'd anywhere because as you said, I'm laying low.  It's just too painful to intro and then say good bye.  Just another example of how prior losses really mess with you.  I'm not sure when it feels comfortable enough but hopefully it's soon.

As for the "house" - well, it's an apartment so pictures are very unexciting :)  Jchow - we are moving to Prospect Heights - so leaving Manhattan for Brooklyn!  Maybe we'll join you in the burbs in a few years!

xoxo to all of you! 

Me: 37 DH: 37 TTC since Jan 2012. RE consult and initial testing done in Aug 2012: SA fine, AMH 1.1 & HSG clear - on way to IUI but got BFP on 9/10/2012. m/c 10/3/2012 at 6w5d. BFP next cycle which was a c/p. IUI #1: Clomid 100mg 12/6= BFN. IUI#2 (unmedicated) Jan 2013 = BFN. Hysteroscopy 1/25/13. IUI#3 Clomid 100mg 2/23 = BFN IUI# 4: BFN. IVF #1 April 2013, BFP!  EDD 1/12/14 with Boy!

Re: latest update - *ticker*

  • Oh how exciting for you!!! When men cry I get choked up! That is so sweet, I truly hope you become more comfortable and I wish you the absolute best!!!

    I like Brooklyn, I know where there is a Target ;) I used to spend lots of time there but my friends moved up to the Bronx.

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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  • Oh, Lenox......I am speechless due to being so excited for you and your hubby!  I can imagine how special that moment was of hearing that little heartbeat.  Wow, how surreal.  (I have a big grin on my face, as I type)  What a beautiful image to think of your sweet husband crying while hearing his son or daughter in your belly.   :)  So, perfect!   What was the baby's heartrate?  I am sure it was very strong.  Can you keep the recording of the baby's heartbeat or do I have it all wrong in how that stuff works? 

    I can understand your apprehension and know that you are always welcome here, we will celebrate with you until the finish line!   :)  We will be your cheerleaders!  Woopwoop....Take your time and know that it will be the right time, when you see fit.  Sending you Big Hugs!  I can so understand the pain of what you are saying, so, know that we are here for you.

    In regards to your home, it is your home!  Apartments are beautiful.  Hope you have lots of fun decorating it and setting up the nursery for your little one. 

    Thanks for sharing with us and letting us know how it all went.  So, happy for you....Best wishes!  ;)

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
  • Yea...  I am glad you got to hear the heartbeat & how exciting that your DH cried...  I am wishing you loads of luck for a very "boring" pregnancy :)
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  • I am so happy and excited to read this post, Lenox.  I grew up in Brooklyn, near Bay Ridge.  Best of luck and hope you have an easy breezy pregancy!  Let me know if you move up to the burbs one day, I need some hip friends up there.  Cool

     

  • Congrats Lenox!!!  Hope that you feel comfortable to intro on Pg after 35 soon.  So happy for you!!!
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
  • So happy for you Lenox!! Btw...apartment pics are awesome too!!

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • GuennieGuennie member
    Ticker warning.

    I remember when you were feeling really low, I just want to tell you how happy I am for your good news!! My fingers and toes are crossed for you and I look forward to seeing you on PG35 when you are ready. Biggest heartfelt congrats to you!
    Me:41, DH:41 Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. One daughter born on Thanksgiving in 2013. Six losses.
  • QOTRQOTR member
    It's great to see an update from you Lenox.  I hope things continue to go well.
    Me-41, Hubby-40.
    1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
    Dear Son born 5/28/14
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