need advice....please help

TrigGrrr

ok so last mont I got my monthly cycle on the 16th and found out last Friday I was pregnant from the doctor. last month my period only lasted 3 days maybe 4. I thought last month I may had been pregnant but when I got my period didnt think too much of it. now I'm freaking out wondering if last month I was even though I bleed? I went out drinking one night last month and have a beer or wine here and there but cant help wondering I messed my baby up. I also take valium to help me sleep. I want this baby bad and cant help thinking I messed my baby up. anyone think im truly going on 5 weeks like doc says or if I more like 10 and last month period was a fluke? when my urine test came back hcg levels were low and at first the test was negative but then went positive. Am I just paranoid? Please help.

Karen610

I think you are just paranoid.

MrsIrby79

Paranoid but understandable! We'll about the drinking I don't think that harmed the baby unless u got do wasted it was like a black out thing, which it doesn't sound like u did. But regarding ur period be short, and not being really sure about if u may be farther along u may want to talk to ur doctor because they say some bleeding may accure around ur 3 to 5 week point. But the last thing u want to do is stress, just talk to ur doc

kiki1978

I woud say don't worry about the one night of drinking before you knew, but stop taking the valium to go to sleep.  Are you going back to the doctor to have your levels checked?  If not, keep POAS.

rnnDAS

The bleeding could have very well been implantation bleeding. You can reasearch it for more info. I would talk to a doc if I was you though because it also could have been an early miscarry. After a miscarry your body is still full of hcg so even after the baby is gone you can still test positive. If a miscarry was not the case and it was just a weird thing that happened then I wouldn't be too concerned with the few drinks. I would stop drinking immediately though and consult a doc about wether or not the valium is safe for your unborn child. Good luck with everything!