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meeting BM for the first time...

lily_721lily_721 member
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We have the boys all the time.  She never visits and has only requested SS1 2x in 4 yrs.  She stopped requesting to see SS1 when we told her that we were not paying for his expenses while he was visiting her (food, entertainment, travel).  yes, you do notice an exclusion of SS2 -- she ignores him. 

Now she and her crazy mother have said they are coming out for SS1's graduation.  We are going forward with our plans to celebrate SS1 and just invite her along.  She has disappointed the boys so many times, she probably won't show up.

together since 2006
full time stepmom to SS1 and SS2 since 2010
married since 2011

TTC since 7/2011 (no planned bc since 2008)
HSG 11/2011: one blocked tube
S/A 2/2012 and retest S/A 3/2012: normal
Bloodwork: normal
2nd HSG 5/2012: clear
Femara cycle 5mg #1 7/14/12 + IUI #1 7/23/12 = bfn
New RE appt 8/14/12
IVF #1 meds 8/30/12. ER 9/14/2012: 7 retrieved, 6 fertilized. ET 9/19/12: 1 perfect embryo 5dt.
Beta #1 BFP! 97
Beta #2 234
Beta #3 4937
ultrasound #1 heart beat 127
10/20/12 graduated!!!
EDD 6/7/12
Team PINK!!

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Re: meeting BM for the first time...

  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    I feel so badly for the children in these types of situations. I really hope that his day is not ruined by her presence or lack there of.

    BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012

    BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013

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  • PamelacakePamelacake member

    The BM I deal with is like this and I have a long road ahead of me. My SD's from her are only 5 & 6.

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