Experience

CinemaGoddess

GhostMonkey:

MiaMyPuggle:

Because when you've hoped for something so long and weren't successful, it breaks your heart. It's like adding salt to the wound when you see everyone around you getting what you've been striving for for so long. Basically, a kick in the balls. If you're talking about TTGP girls, they lurk on here and are good souls. ETA: mobile screwed up my wording.

Does not matter. 

Just because someone else struggles to get pregnant does not mean that someone should have to be overjoyed at an unplanned pregnancy. That's like IF'ers telling someone that they shouldn't complain about pregnancy because they would kill to be in their shoes. They are not the same pain, and someone should not feel like they can't feel their emotions because someone else is facing a completely different situation.

If the TTGP gals here can't handle someone venting about pregnancy, they need to wander back to their board. 

Women should be able to voice their feelings about their pregnancy, good or bad. Women who are contemplating a termination should also be able to voice their positions as well. 

 

QFT. 

CinemaGoddess

If you get pregnant easily, you don't get to tell the people who struggled to "get over it and deal".

If you had difficulties, you don't get to tell the people who have it easy to "put on your big girl panties" or to be "grateful" for the pregnancy because you struggled.

Both viewpoints are equally f'ucked up.