So H and I's 4th anniversary is in a week and I have nothing planned or even started
I feel terrible and waaaay behind, which I never am!
Any ideas for gifts? I think the gift is flowers and/or linen/silk!!!
Our TTC Journey
TTC #1: May 2011
BFP: 10/27/2011 | EDD: 6/30/12
DS born 6/28/12 via C/S
TTC #2: September 2018
Me: 36 | DH: 39
Mirena removed 9/13/2018 after 6 years
BFP 11/11/2018 | MC @ 5.5 weeks on Thanksgiving
July 2019 - Diagnosed with Secondary Unexplained IF
August 2019 - 2.5 mg of Letrozole = Never Ovulated so Trigger and IUI were cancelled
9/30/2019 - IUI #1 (5 mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFP but Betas showed CP @ 4 weeks
10/28/2019 - IUI #2 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN
11/25/2019 - IUI #3 (7.5mg of Letrozole, Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
12/24/2019 - IUI #4 (7.5mg of Letrozole + Crinone after IUI) = BFN
1/24/2020 - IUI #5 (50mg of Clomid + Trigger + Crinone after IUI) = BFN and an Ovarian Cyst
3/2/2020 - Taking a break to reset/NTNP
11/1/2020 - At peace with where things are in life and are no long actively TTC. Whatever happens will happen and it will all be okay.

Re: 4th anniversary - NBR
Go to a nice dinner or cater in or if you are a good cook, make a nice dinner. Casino (if there is one near you)
A couples massage (oh la la).
Not sure what your DH does for a living, but a nice dress shirt or tie (My DH has really started liking bowties).
Sports tickets or tickets to a concert that might be coming up (even if it is and IOU for now). Does he have a hobby or activity that he likes that you could buy a gift that relates to that.
Or have you guys ever wanted to try something new together like dancing or take a scuba class. Or is there a famous landmark that neither of you have been to, even though you live in that city.
GL!
Do that and a dinner out. : ]