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rainy369rainy369 member
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Hi ladies. Here's some background...TTC since April 2012. BFP 11/17/12 and then complete miscarriage 12/3/12 at 6 weeks. My question is do I go see a RE now since its been over a year of trying or should I wait longer because the mc put us behind?  

 I appreciate your help and support. This TTC thing was supposed to be fun... 

Married since 8/2009
TTC # 1 since April 2012
BFP 11/17/2012 Complete M/C 12/3/2012
50mg Clomid
BFP 8/12/2013 EDD 4/23/2014
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  • AkieshaAkiesha member
    Its totally up to you, I waited only because I didn't want to admit there was an issue but it's your call. Good luck with whatever you decide and sorry for your loss.
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    SA- Abnormal Dx:MFI
    DH on 50mg Clomid 3x week
    BFP#1- 1/21/13 CP 1/24/13
    Cycle 18,19 & 20 50mg Clomid+trigger+IUI= All BFFN
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  • chickyclgchickyclg member

    Sorry for your loss.

    We waited for almost a year after our last loss to see an RE, and honestly I wish I would have taken my husband's advice and started sooner.  I got really confused when my OB told me that our time TTC started over due to the pregnancy. It's really up to you, but if I could do it over, I would have and could have started sooner.


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    Me~28 DH~27 

     6-12-2010  Miscarriage. 
    3-16-2012 D&C/Miscarriage.
     Blocked Left Tube. 
    Diminished Ovarian Reserve   
    MFI - Sperm Morphology 2%.  
    MTHFR 
     Abnormal Antiphospholipid Antibodies
    April 2013 ~  1st IUI attempt - 100 mg Clomid- Canceled
    May 2013  ~ 2nd IUI attempt -100 mg Clomid- Canceled
    June 2013 ~ 3rd IUI attempt - 100 mg Clomid+ Trigger+ Progesterone~BFN
     IVF/ICSI #1 May 2014 ~ Freeze All ~ Due to OHSS
     5/1/2014 ~ 22 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 3 frozen
    5/28/2014 ~ FET#1 ~ Transferred 2 Hatching Blasts
      6/1/2014~ **BFP**
    6/9/2014 Beta #1 ~ 1022
    6/12/2014 Beta #2 ~ 3099
    6/16/2014 Beta #3 ~ >5000
    6/19/2014 First U/S ~ TWINS!!!  
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  • Desmo35Desmo35 member
    I didn't quite wait a year after my first loss. I think it was 8 or 9 months.I knew in my heart that we were going to need help and I was approaching 35. I'm glad I didn't wait to talk to an RE. My ob was ready to just hand us some clomid and say go for it, but I wanted to be tested for everything before we started any kind od treatment. Go with your gut feeling.
    BFP #1 6/16/2012 EDD 2/25/2013 MMC @ 7 weeks(found out at 10 weeks) 8/2/2012 BFP #2 2/8/2013 EDD 10/25/2013 Beta #1 56 Beta #2 62 Beta #3 156 Beta #4 665 Beta #5 1091 Blighted Ovum 2/27/2013
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  • mfarmer0811mfarmer0811 member

    First, I'm so sorry for your loss! If it were me, I would go to the RE as soon as you could. In my opinion, it is always better to know if there is a problem, or rule things out. My DH have been ttc for over two years. I went to the RE in January, and I wish I had gone earlier! I wasn't conceiving because my tubes were blocked, and I had to have them removed. If I had known sooner, we could have started IVF sooner. (we are starting this summer) I knew deep down there was something wrong, but my DH wanted to wait. If you are both on board to get some answers, I would go now. I hope you get the answers you so desperately deserve! Thoughts and prayers for you!

    Also, you may want to check out the TTC after a loss, those ladies may have some good advice for you as well. 

    Me 28 DH 30 Married 08-11-07 TTC since 07/11 HSG 01-21-13 Left FTB Seeing RE 1-28-13 RE 1-28-13 Both tubes blocked LAP surgery 2-15-13 Both tubes removed Started IVF #1 June 2013 Meds: BCP, Lupron, Gonal-F, Ovidrel, Medrol, Doxycycline
    Beta #1-BFP!!! HCG-55 Beta #2--111 Beta #3--2,825 Beta #4 22,031 1st U/S 7-29-13 Saw and heard our little sweet pea's heartbeat!! 109 bpm 


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