Getting pregnant again?

mariamora15

so we had our daughter Delainie last June. My boyfriend wants another baby, yet im still in school and he has a stable job. i am currently doing perfect in school and will be able to graduate. should i wait a couple more years or not?

casester1015

Personally, I think you should finish school.  It's good to have something to fall back on if something were to ever happen to your relationship.

ktnicole

School as in high school?

Finish school.

Ms. Lisi

Finish school. You will not be upset that you did.

aylafsu88

IMO you should finish school.  Juggling school and a newborn is hard.  You have plenty of time to have a baby.

jenikas

Finish school. I guarantee if you have that 2nd baby before you finish, it's unlikely that you ever will.

Also...I notice you said that HE wants another baby, but nothing about what YOU want. Makes sure you are ready. And call me old fashioned, but I would also get married before getting pregnant again.

myluckypig

jenikas:

Finish school. I guarantee if you have that 2nd baby before you finish, it's unlikely that you ever will. Also...I notice you said that HE wants another baby, but nothing about what YOU want. Makes sure you are ready. And call me old fashioned, but I would also get married before getting pregnant again.

I agree with all of this.

You can call me old fashioned as well.  But I believe if you are going to continue playing house (assuming you live together, since you have a child together) and making a family you should get married.  I understand there are surprises, but intentionally bringing more children into your family when you are not married seems wrong (totally my own opinion though!).