frustrated ticker warning

lrichmond86

We moved into this house the week before mothers day last year. It was always the plan to put a memorial garden in on the side of the house and that it would be finished by mothers day this year. About two months ago I reminded dh about how important this was to me and how excited I was too get it done on time. Well, that isn't going to happen. A lot of projects around the house have come up since then and my garden got pushed to the back burner. And being 29 weeks pregnant and high risk at that there isn't much I can do physically to help get things done. I've tried to be really nice about it and not put any pressure on dh because I know it's a lot of stress for him to do the work of two and help get ready for a new baby on top of his normal work load. Just this morning he said that he was still trying to decide what to get me for mothers day. I reminded him that the garden was supposed to be my gift and that I didn't want anything else. He just said ok, that it would be am on going gift. But that's not what I wanted! I don't think he understands how important this was to me and how disappointing it is that another mothers day is going by without a space in memory of our son. I'm frustrated that it's not done and that I can't help and that dh just doesn't get it. Ugh. Just needed to vent I guess.

shandorfml2

sending my love....I'd guess he doesn't get how important it is to you. I love the idea of a garden. When we buy a house I want to have one for my daughter. Good luck with getting your hubby motivated, and wishing you a healthy pregnancy.

Noethola

I am so very sorry that he isnt seeming to get how important the garden is to you. House projects really eat up a lot of time. I hope that he can get to it soon.