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Struggling, prayers please

My husband and I have been TTC #3 for about 6 months and suffered a miscarriage 2 months ago. My Mom was so excited to be a Nana again and was my rock through my last 2 pregnancies and early Thursday morning she suffered a heart attack and passed away in her sleep. Although I still want another baby very much I can not imagine going through any of thing without her. We are going to take a break for a couple of months, please pray for us.

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    I am so incredibly sorry for your losses.
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    I'm sorry for your loss. I'll pray for your your healing in this time of grief.

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                                                         BFP#2:  06/12/2013 ---- loss
                                                                DS #2 born 4/08/2014
          BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
                                                                   BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
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    Oh I am so sorry for your losses.  Lots of T & Ps...
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    I'm so sorry for both of your losses! I can't imagine life without my mom, she is my rock. I wish you the best!

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    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
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    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
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    Man, that is tough. I'm so sorry that you're dealing with these losses at once. Stay strong and GL.

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    I am so sorry for your losses. Sending prayers and hugs.
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    I'm so incredibly sorry for your losses.
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    So incredibly sorry for your loss. 
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    I am so sorry for your losses.  I will pray for peace for you and your family during this time.  I have not lost a parent, but I have lost a sibling.  The grief and pain don't ever go away, but it does get better and you learn to have the sadness of your loss and the joy of your life exist together.  Take care of yourself.

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. While I've never been through the pain of a miscarriage I have lost my mom.   It was devastating and I too wondered how I would ever get through one day, let alone a lifetime without her. As we start thinking about TTC #2 it hurts to know she won't get to experience it with me so i get where you're coming from. I think taking a break, allowing yourself time to heal is a good idea. Focus on yourself and Just take it one day at a time.


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    BFP #2 8/27/13 ~ EDD 5/8/14 ~ Natural MC 9/18/13 at 6 weeks, 6 days
    BFP#3 3/28/14 ~ EDD 12/7/14 ~ DD Born 11/21/14
    BFP#4 6/15/17 ~ EDD 2/20/18
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I know just how you feel about not wanting to go through anything without her. I lost my mom in May of last year and going through this journey without having her to talk to is very difficult, but it does help to think she is watching over me and will be there with me every step of the way, even if I can't see her.


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                   May 2013: CD3 Blood work-normal
               June 2013: Hsg-Right tube blocked

                   July 26, 2013: Starting Follistim for IVF #1

                  August 2013: IVF #1 Cancelled- Abnormal embryos

             October/November 2013: IVF #2 w/ICSI

                        November 8, 2013: Transferred two early blasts (no frosties) 

    November 18, 2013: First EVER BFP! 

    Beta#1: 91  Beta#2: 288

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    I'm so sorry for all of your losses. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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    So sorry for your losses. Prayers for strength, peace and comfort. 
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    Oh my goodness! I am so sorry to hear of your losses. You (and yours) will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers. Left Hug




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    I am so, so sorry for your loss.
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    I am so sorry for your losses.

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    I am so so incredibly sorry for you loss. I know how difficult it is to loose a parent. T & P's for you and your family. :::hugs:::
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    oh I am so sorry. this breaks my heart. I will pray for you and your family.
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    I'm so sorry for your losses.




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    September 2012: Start IF testing

    DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA  Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA

    October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos

    November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues.  Converted to freeze all due to lining issues.  2 blasts frozen on day 6!

    January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues

    April 2015: FET #2.1

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    Thoughts and prayers! So sorry for your loss!
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I will say a prayer for you and your family.
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    4/14: IVF #2 Antagonist Protocol = 18R/16M/15F/6 frosties; transferred one 4BB blast = BFP!!
    Beta #1 (5/12) = 232 Beta #2 (5/16) = 886 Beta #3 (5/20) = 3168
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    I am so sorry for your losses. Take care of yourself.
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    I am so sorry for your loss.

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    Married 8/2008

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    9/2014 Progesterone test - Perfect

    10/2014 HSG - All Clear

    9/2014 DH's SA - Perfect

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    Oh my goodness. Major thoughts and prayers for you and your family. 

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Lots of hugs to you and your family.

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    I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your mother and the pregnancy loss also. I can't even imagine. That is heart breaking. You will be in my prayers.

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    Very very sorry for your losses. T&P with you right now.
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    I'm so so sorry. Prayers headed your way!
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    I'm so very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine how devastating that is. Many prayers for you and your family. After my dad died a family friend told me, "Your relationship hasn't changed. The ability to communicate has, but all the love you felt for each other is still there." Thinking that has comforted me more than anything else. I hope it can provide as much comfort to you.
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    DX:  PCOS and subseptate uterus
    August 2013:  Clomid + Trigger + IUI TI = BFN
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    April 2013:  Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
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    My condolences on your losses. My prayers are with you.
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    I am so sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so sorry, sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family
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    I'm so sorry for your losses you will be in our thoughts and prayers
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    I am so sorry for your losses. I'll be praying for your and your family.
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    I am so sorry about your loss :-( Taking a break from TTC will be good - give youself time to heal. Sending hugs your way.

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    Me: 26
    Jan. 2014 - Blood work ordered by obgyn:  Prolactin = high & AMH = low (0.73)
    Feb. 6, 2014 - Repeat blood work ordered by obgyn:  Prolactin = normal & AMH = low (0.9)
    Feb.  20, 2014 - First appointment with RE
    Feb. 24, 2014 - HSG scheduled;  DX:  one tube definitely open & one tube could be blocked
    Mar. 7, 2014 - CD 21 Blood work for Progesterone; DX:  Progesterone level at 5.2; shows I ovulated but was low
    Mar. 28, 2014 - Laparoscopy; DX:  Tubes open.  Found some endometriosis and had that removed.
    Started TTC:  June 2012
    June 2012 - March 2013:  When it Happens/it happens method = BFN
    March 2013:  Started using Fertility Friend
    Cycles 1 - 15 with Fertility Friend = BFN
    Cycle 16 - Benched due to Laparoscopy
    Cycle 17 - Natural Cycle = BFN
    Cycle 18 - Natural Cycle = BFN
    Cycle 19 - Natural Cycle = BFN

    Current Cycle:
    Cycle 20 = Natural Cycle

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    I'm so sorry, my heart is broken for you.
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    I am so so so sorry for your losses. Stay strong and we hope to see you back here soon. Sending T&P, lots of love your way. Take care of yourself.
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    Lots of Ts&Ps for you and your family.

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    I am so sorry for your losses.

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