TTC after 35

IF Sucks!!

So today was my 8th Histosonogram.
Today the RE tells me I have a fibroid.
It has always been there, apparently, it has moved or grown since March.
Now they want me to have either a Hysteroscopy or Myomectomy to correct it.
I have two old frosties. There is no guarantee they will be viable.

I'm not doing the Myomectomy. Hell no. I had one in 1999. Horrible.

I had a Hysteroscopy last year.

This is crazy.

Just had to vent.

Re: IF Sucks!!

  • Hey Heather,

    I am so sorry you are going through this and hope that you find the right road to take and yes, IF does suck, big time......

    What do you mean about your frosties having no guarantee that they will be viable?  Did they make it to blasts before you had them frozen?  Or, do the frozen eggs have to be use by a certain time?  I know that there is always a chance that it does work, but just wanting to understand.

    Anyways, I hope that your fibroid just disappears and quits being a pain in your..... ;)

    Wishing you the best and good luck with your decision. 

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
  • I am sorry! If does stink!!! Hope any procedure you decide to have goes well and you will have a nice home for your embies!!
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  • I am sooo sorry! Look up hot castor oil packs, totally natural there has been indications it can help decrease fibroids....nothing else its really soothing, I was giving them to my self pre lap surgery and will again pre iui.
    Hope everything works out for you

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15


  • F You IF!!!!!!!

    I'm sorry! 

    Me: 37 DH: 37 TTC since Jan 2012. RE consult and initial testing done in Aug 2012: SA fine, AMH 1.1 & HSG clear - on way to IUI but got BFP on 9/10/2012. m/c 10/3/2012 at 6w5d. BFP next cycle which was a c/p. IUI #1: Clomid 100mg 12/6= BFN. IUI#2 (unmedicated) Jan 2013 = BFN. Hysteroscopy 1/25/13. IUI#3 Clomid 100mg 2/23 = BFN IUI# 4: BFN. IVF #1 April 2013, BFP!  EDD 1/12/14 with Boy!
  • I am sorry you are going through this.  I don't know anything about fibroids, but hopefully HeatherStevens idea helps...

    Screw IF...

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  • Bih hugs girl :(

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!



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    F You IF!!!!!!!

    I'm sorry! 




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    Ugh.  How frustrating.  I'm sorry you're facing another delay.
    Me-41, Hubby-40.
    1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
    Dear Son born 5/28/14
  • Thank you all! I just feel so unsettled.
    Honestly, I am over it. I am so done with injections, ultrasounds, appointments, tests, sadness, disappointment, jealousy at the sight of pregnant women...ugh...the list can go on and on...

    I almost wish, there were no more frozen embryos. Then it wouldn't matter.
    I wouldn't have to think about it.
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