Puppy While Pregnant

jlml2008

Ok ladies so I need honest opinions...we are thinking about getting a 2 month old puppy next week.

We currently have a 4 year old German Shephead mix and a 2.5 year old daughter. We have a relatively big house and an ok size yard. My husband has been begging for a chocolate lab forever and one became available from a friend for free. Just needs shots and to be fixed.

We got our first dog when I was 6 weeks pregnant with DD and we never had any problems. Am I crazy for considering the puppy at this stage in pregnancy? DH would do all the clean up outside and our house is tile so accidents are relatively easy to clean. Plus DD is absolutely in love with dogs and this would make her year

emolm

Honestly, I'd rather shoot myself in the face than get a puppy at this point.

I got both of my dogs as puppies and they weren't okay with being on their own through the night for a good six months each.

So that's another year of sleep I've missed out on.

emolm

And I'm not opposed to puppies while pregnant. I'm opposed to having a puppy AND a newborn.

valerie4977

So you would have a toddler, newborn and a puppy? Sounds like you have a lot of patience and energy! I do see the appeal though, plus a friend for the dog you already have would be nice.

hjk5000

Oh hell no. No way. Don't do it. This face:

 

*BabyMamma03*

I think it's just your motherly genes kicking in telling you that you want to take care of something. Once your baby gets here though you probably will just be annoyed by the puppy. When I was PG with DS1 I thought I wanted a puppy too at the end of my pregnancy. I'm super happy that I didn't get one.

If I were you, I would just wait until after the baby comes and things settle down. If you still want  a puppy you can always get one. It's much harder to get rid of an animal once it's in the home.

LaBellaVida

no way would I do it, but that's me! But if you have a fenced in back yard, where the puppy isn't always inside, and a potty trained older dog to help out with training puppy- maybe it wouldn't be such a huge deal.

we found a black lab puppy.....and boy did he grow fast! and he chewed on EVERYTHING!! I seriously couldn't handle how big he was, and how much of a little kid he was. LOL. he was too much work for me. My friend took him off our hands- and he is doing great. I loved him....I just couldn't deal with such a large dog.

But, if you are able, and willing...and don't mind being sleep deprived a little early- DH will pick up messes- maybe go for it! Follow what your gut tells you!

starrjelly

It's hard but doable.  When I was 8 mos pg with #2, we adopted a 4 mo puppy.  It was crazy town.  Three weeks ago, we adopted a 1.5 yo puppy and it's crazy town.

We already have an almost 8 yo dog and an 8 yo cat too.  Cray cray here  

emolm

brandilc84:

we found a black lab puppy.....and boy did he grow fast! and he chewed on EVERYTHING!! I seriously couldn't handle how big he was, and how much of a little kid he was. LOL. he was too much work for me. My friend took him off our hands and he is doing great. I loved him....I just couldn't deal with such a large dog.

Lol it's not the size of the dog that is the issue with labs. They're just all effing crazy, as a breed.

Laura004

I have a 15 month old white lab and he is amazing. We love him so much... but he is A LOT of work. He was potty trained in about 3 weeks (we brought him home at 9 weeks old) and slept through the night at about 5 months old. Labs need to be exercised regularly, so if your hubby is willing to take him out to play ball or run with him he should be fine. Good luck!

dmlk413

There is no way I would get a puppy right now. That sounds like a recipe for disaster.

Hammee

emolm:

Honestly, I'd rather shoot myself in the face than get a puppy at this point.

I got both of my dogs as puppies and they weren't okay with being on their own through the night for a good six months each.

So that's another year of sleep I've missed out on.

This. There's no WAY. Dear God don't do it.

Stardust54

I'm tired just reading this post lol! I would never. But I have a lot on my plate right now, but it sounds like you do too.

jlml2008

Thanks for your honest opinions! I'm not sure I want to jump on the crazy train...it comes down to if I'm willing to sacrifice my sanity for DH and DD's love of puppies...y'all are making me lean towards NO!

Kelli2507

DON'T DO IT!!!! We got a 3 month old golden doodle in dec for DD and he is a great dog, but I so wish we would have waiting until we were done havig kids!!! It's like I've had a newborn while waiting for my newborn! I repeat DO NOT DO IT!!!

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PinkPuffyHeart2

Oy! I'm a huge animal lover and we got our puppy at 16 weeks, one month before we got pregnant. I'm worried enough about him not being out if his puppy stage when baby comes... And he has been a nightmare puppy! Chewing up our couch, peeing on the couch, licking his pee as it comes out, eating his poo, barking like mad at everything... Ugh... I'm never getting a puppy again. And I would never get a lab...that is just me! They are eternal puppies and being that I work in the surgery dept at a specialty animal hospital I can tell you they are the number 1 breed to have torn cruciate ligaments, which is a knee problem, and that'll cost you 3 to 4000 per leg to fix and they got 2 that can blow! They also get elbow dysplasia and blah blah.... Too much breeding... Yadda yadda.... Anyway, I would hold off.

musicalsilver

We got a puppy right before I got pregnant, and I couldn't imagine dealing with that kind of stress at the moment.  Having to get up in the middle of the night for puppy pee trips outside etc ... and the general stress of potty training a pup.  

However, if you're set on it, then maybe now would be preferable to with an exceedingly small baby. 

emolm

medschoolwife:

Thanks for your honest opinions! I'm not sure I want to jump on the crazy train...it comes down to if I'm willing tonbsp;sacrificenbsp;my sanity for DH and DD's love of puppies...y'all are making me lean towards NO!

Based on your husband's career path, I'd say no. Wait a year.

melissa0726

Don't do it.  Everything everyone else said.  I would go insane with a puppy and a newborn.  LOL I think my blood pressure is rising just at the thought!

jmaguilar5

My husband brought home a year old German Shepard/rott mix. We have a three year old dog as well. Honestly, it hasn't been that bad, but as a compromise I negotiated a cleaning lady

ChristyD6

medschoolwife:

Thanks for your honest opinions! I'm not sure I want to jump on the crazy train...it comes down to if I'm willing to sacrifice my sanity for DH and DD's love of puppies...y'all are making me lean towards NO!

There will be other labs that need good homes in the future. I think put the puppy on hold for now, but leave that door open in the future. I think having a new baby in the house will make your DD's year too!

pgermain11

My puppy is almost 9 months and he drives me freaking crazy. Puppy stage is the worst and I want to cry even thinking of ever doing that again with or without a newborn/toddler.

Im with the majority here. Don't do it.

Eta: sorry I was being a dirty lurker! I just seriously almost cried thinking of having a new puppy

Luthy

I would die. DIE. I think a puppy while PREGNANT is fine... it's a puppy with a newborn that I can't even begin to imagine. Puppies are soooo much work. Not to mention often really annoying. (Good thing they're so cute...)