Have you told anyone (other than presumably your partner and The Bump!) about your pregnancy?
My last pregnancy ended in CP and I had already told 2 girlfriends and DH had told his family by this time (I'm 4w6d today). I did end up telling my Mom when CP happened. This time, I'm keeping things a little closer and have told NO ONE. It has almost come up a few times, but I will get my 2nd beta results today, and I'd like to at least wait and make sure those #s are good.
I'm actually thinking of waiting until US (May 21) to tell family and a close friend or two, and then waiting until 12 wks to tell everyone else, including work.
Re: Who Have You Told?
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BFP 10/8/12 | Missed Miscarriage - D&C 11/12/12
BFP #2 03/08/11 EDD 11/16/11 DD Born on 11/04/11
BFP #3 08/29/12 EDD 05/06/13 M/C on 08/30/12
BFP #4 11/01/12 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C on 12/28/12
BFP #5 04/30/13 EDD 01/03/14 DS Born on 01/02/14
BFP #6 01/11/15 EDD 09/22/15 M/C 03/09/15
No one yet, but with DS I told family very early, probably around 6 weeks. My parents are out of town and I'm going on vacation next week, so maybe when we're all back in town I'll tell them. Everyone else, like work folks, will find out after the first trimester, I guess.
I am most dreading telling my ex, DS' dad. We have a great relationship, and I'm worried this will change things between us. But I'm probably worried for nothing. I'll let you know!
No one, it's killing me!
Leith Abby, we told too soon, and had a scare at the beginning of my pregnancy. Everything worked out but it was stressful having everyone ask. So DH wants to wait until the first US this time. But I'm so bad keeping a secret
I (obviously) told H right away. I waited to tell my parents for a couple of days...I just wanted them to know in case something went wrong.
A friend of mine (who is also pregnant and on the bump) found a post from me on 1st Tri and saw my chart so she knows too.
I also told one other friend. I needed someone to calm me down when I first found out, so I reached out to her.
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BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
I have told my yoga teacher since I have to be more mindful of what I do now, and I told a friend when she offered me a job - I didn't want to be a jerk and just say nope, not gunna do it since she knows I would have loved the position she offered me. But I told her I'm not telling yet! I have my appointment tomorrow and will be telling another friend since it makes a difference in her life - I officiate at roller derby and she's the head official so she'll have to put me somewhere safe. The big reveal will be on mother's day. That'll be cute.
ETA - I did tell my April 2012 moms that moved with me to another board! They were the first to know after DH!
I just got my BFP today and I have already told DH, my mom, and 2 BFF.
I had a missed m/c in 2010 and learned that I needed to lean on those people. I am sure I will tell my sister in the next week. Otherwise it will be a while for everyone else.
BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010
BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011
BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013
BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy. Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)
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BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014
This is where I am at too. I hated having to tell people that I had a miscarriage when they didn't even know that I was pregnant. So This time around I am going to tell the people that I am pregnant if they are on my list of people I would tell that I had a miscarriage. I have told a couple friends and DH. We are going to tell our immediate family on mothers day 5/12. But we will wait to make a big announcement (like on facebook) until we are out of the first tri. Plus we figure telling those that are closest to us will give them time to celebrate this pregnancy even if it doesn't go full term (Fingers crossed it will though)
My sister-in-law knows and I told my husband yesterday. Because of having my miscarriage last year, I feel a bit hesitant to tell everyone but at the same time, I would rather them know and be there to help me through it (should I have another miscarriage).
I plan on telling our families on Mother's Day (got a special gift planned since this will be the first grandchild on my husband's side and only the second on mine). I will probably tell my close friends then too. I don't want anyone knowing till our Moms know because if it got back to them they'd probably be pretty upset. I will probably make it official with everyone else after my first ultrasound which is scheduled for 7 weeks.
Just DH.
I'm not opposed to telling everyone early like we did when i got pregnant with DD and DS, I guess it just doesn't feel like the right time yet.