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nolalove610

Hi, ladies. I was here back on New year's eve, had a miscarriage then at 7w6d. Yesterday I miscarried at 9w2d. I'm so lost, I don't know where to go. I have a wtf appointment today, since it came on with no warnings. My DH is out of town, and I just feel so alone.

Serenla

Oh honey I am so sorry you had to go through this again. You are not alone, we are all here. ::hugs::

nolalove610

Thank you. I can't stop staring at my ultrasound and crying. I haven't even made it out of bed for anything more than a shower.

margoptaylorton

Sooooooo sorry for you....I can't imagine how you are feeling. Here for you.

Vms126

So sorry for your losses! I will be keeping you and your little angels in my thoughts and prayers.

BellanieNJ

I am so so sorry for your loss and am keeping you in my t&p. ((Hugs))

panther422516

I'm sorry...we r all here for you if u need to vent cry anything...thought ans prayers

Katie5295

Firstly, I am so very sorry for your losses. ::HUGS::

One loss is hard enough. Two is worse. Your constantly reassured that its so unlikely to happen. That your chances are slim to have another m/c in a row and it doesn't happen very often. When you become that "slim" percent of women it is devastating. I know ai never even imagined I would. I had two in a 6 month period. Like PP said we are here vent, advice, anything.

I am still waiting for it to get better myself since this second one. But it will get better. More ::HUGS:: and lots of T and P coming your way

Serenla

nolalove610:

Thank you. I can't stop staring at my ultrasound and crying. I haven't even made it out of bed for anything more than a shower.

Do what you need to, relax or take a nap. I know you said DH was out, do you have some family or friends who can take care of you for a bit?
Make sure you eat something.

sstara

I'm so sorry for your losses. You might ask your doctor about a clotting issue. There are two women at my work who had multiple miscarriages and both of them had a clotting issue. It was resolved by taking 1 baby asprin a day until 30 weeks. Take care of yourself!

Kay6519

I'm so sorry for your losses! I'll keep you and your DH in my prayers! I know you said DH is out of town, but do you have a friend or someone who might be able to be with you for a while? Having someone there with me is what helped me keep my sanity after my m/c Tuesday.

porterlove525

I'm so sorry for your losses, our stories are almost identical in terms of timing! I had my first mc on New Years Eve as well and just had my second, a missed mc, on 4/9. I am so sad to see you back here with me and hope that our stays are not long! Big hugs!

nolalove610

I truly thank you all for your support, thoughts, prayers, and hugs. I just got back from almost 4 hours with my doctor. Bad news, confirmed miscarriage. Good news, no surgery needed. I am still in so much pain from the cytotec, but I go back to her in a month for a recheck and bloodwork. I do have my parents here as support; it's just so unfair that DH is gone for the next few weeks. I think we have decided to wait a while before trying again. Emotionally, this has been so hard on both of us, and physically, I don't think I could handle it if it were to happen again. I look forward to getting to know you all, but I wish you all luck in your journies.