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Mind is racing....

Hi everyone! So I have been on bed rest since Monday for spotting and cramping....both fairly light. However, I am still scared to death. After my long fertility journey, I am 4 weeks and 6 days with DE. I don't have my first U/S until 510. I am laying here in bed, praying everything stops and all goes well. I have watches movies, crocheted, done crossword puzzles, read, etc. but I can't seem to shut off my mind. Can anyone relate? What worked for you?

Re: Mind is racing....

  • I can't relate but FX that everything is ok!

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • Unfortunately, I had a bleeding scare last week after my first u/s.  The bleeding lasted for about 24 hours, then tapered to brown then stopped completely.  I think that my cervix was just irritated.  I hope that that is the case for you too.  Sorry that you are going through this, have you called your RE?......maybe they can get you in for an earlier u/s to put your mind at ease?  Big ((hugs))  It's so scary.
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
  • I hope you bleeding has stopped for good!!!! I have been in touch with my dr office last week but I am going to call them again tomorrow. Last week, they said it was too early for an U/S but maybe this week they can bring me in. I have been doing well since this morningno blood, red or brown, since about 10am.
  • Hoping everything is ok, I am sure it has been a long couple of days. 
    Me- Ok as 1/13
    DH- Azoospermia diagnosis
    DIUI #1 7/13 BFN
    DIUI #2 8/31/13 BFN
    DIUI #3 10/26/13 Fingers crossed!




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  • Spotting and cramping is fairly common in early pregnancy and it sounds like your RE is being ultra cautious with you. I know how hard it is to wait and wonder what is going to happen next in an early pregnancy though. I can relate to that!

    For me, the worst thing I could do was talk to Dr Google and try to figure out all of the worst case scenarios. They would eat at me and eat at me and make me miserable. I hated when people told me to relax, because I couldn't relax. I just hope that you are able to find some distractions that make it a little easier for you. Good luck at your u/s and keep us posted!

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    Me (32) DH (36) - Finding our way to baby #1
    Me: POF/DOR - AMH <0.16, heterozygous c677t MTHFR, insulin resistant and gluten intolerant
    DH: Severe MFI

    12/2/11 - IUI #1- BFN 
    8/1/12 - IVF #1 - Zero response from max stims (600iu intramuscularly)

    My ovaries are just for decoration

    12/6/12 - Adopted five embryos that had been frozen for over ten years!
    2/11/13 - DEmbryo FET #1 Thawed four, sadly two didn't survive. Transferred two beautiful blasts. 
    2/16/13 - First BFP of my life @ 6dp5dt! EDD 10/30/13
    3/27/13 - After beta and u/s hell, no heartbeat ever detected. D&C at 9w1d.

    6/5/13 - Adopted four new embryos that had been frozen for seven years!
     
    9/12/13 - DEmbryo FET #2. Thawed and transferred two beautiful blasts
    9/17/13 - BFP @ 5dp6dt! EDD 05/31/14
    9/29/13 - m/c @ 5w1d. :(

    11/19/13 - DEmbryo FET #3. Thawed and transferred one blast from each batch. Wow!
    11/23/13 - BFP @ 4dp6dt! EDD 8/7/13
    Beta #1 @ 13dp6dt - 522  Beta #2 @ 16dp6dt - 1373 
    6w5d ultrasound showed one perfect baby with a beautiful heartbeat of 134bpm!

    Snowflake baby is a girl! 
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  • Called my dr office and spoke to my nurse. She was great! She is having me do a progesterone shot daily instead of every other day. She was very reassuring and said that she felt that my spotting is probably medication related progesterone supps irritating my cervix. She said based on my symptoms there is little to make her think i am losing this pregnancy. I go in on Thursday for progesterone, estrogen, and hcg check. Thanks for all of your support ladies!!!!
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