I have 2 nephews with birthdays next month, one turning 4 and one turning 5. We only see them a few times a year so I'm sort of stuck on what to get them. I was going to get them stuff for the beach because we all spend a week at the beach together. But our beach trip is not until the end of July and their party is mid May so I'm thinking it might be weird timing wise. Then I was thinking about just doing a 'summer fun' sort of theme, nets, sidewalk chalk, bubbles, a big ball, etc. My questions are, if you have a preschool boy especially, would you rather get something like that or another generic car/truck/train/superhero toy? And also, would it be odd to get them both pretty much the same thing? They're not brothers but we are doing a joint party for the 2 of them and DD1.