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International vs domestic

pumpkinhead4pumpkinhead4 member
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Just starting to think about adoption but really have no clue about most of it. Can anyone give me the basics? Do most people try to go international over domestic or is that more of a preference decision? What are some things I need to know before really getting into this process? Thanks in advance!
6 & 2 year old, 2 losses
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  • Mrs.SlickMrs.Slick member
    There are a lot of things you'll want to think about.

    Cost?

    Do you want to adopt a newborn, infant or older child?

    Open vs closed adoption?





    I'd say most people on this boa
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  • justjinnyjustjinny member

    When I was just starting to think about adoption I did A LOT of reading online.  I am sure I read the FAQ on this board and lurked around to see what was being talked about on here.  I also found it helpful to check out my state's website and

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  • mtenderemtendere member
    Read read read and think about what things are most important to you in growing your family. Take your time and learn as much as possible. We ended up deciding to pursue foster parenting after much research, thought, and prayer, which is not at all what w
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  • Dr.LorettaDr.Loretta member

    Can anyone give me the basics?

    Yes, see the FAQ at the top of the board

     Do most people try to go international over domestic or is that more of a preference decision?

    It's more of a preference. There a

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  • pumpkinhead4pumpkinhead4 member
    Thank you ladies. I should read the FAQ. I think I am definitely interested in adopting a toddler and wouldn't mind going international. I will do some research and come back if/when I have more questions.
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  • KirstybabyKirstybaby member
    Yah, I think that you have to really consider your family planning and all the options out there.  There are certainly children who need homes everywhere--in the US and overseas.  Good luck with your planning!
    I'm a dance studio owner, writer, cat mommy, and adventuress who is married to the man of her dreams. My husband and I have had a long-time dream to adopt and it's happening in a way that we didn't quite anticipate. But, like any move of God, it's turning out way better than we expected. We'd love for you to follow our story at www.kirstenkline.com!
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    I have to say, a big concern for us is the money. We can afford to raise another child but the cost of adoption seems extremely high and maybe impossible for us. I was under the impression it is higher here in the US, correct? I really am not opposed to d
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