RANT!!!!

AleeaBarnett18

OMG I'm so flipping mad right now and I don't want to be!
I can't believe my boyfriend of 2 years decides to start drinking and flirting with girls 2 weeks after we find out I'm pregnant.
I'm so happy to be having a baby but it sucks he can do that kind of stuff and I'm suppose to sit back and be okay with it!?
NO!
I'm going to go walk at the gym an come home maybe ill be in a better mood! Grrr

LuckyLinds

And this is why you don't have babies with someone til you're happily married...I'm sorry you are going through this. Hopefully his behavior stops.

AleeaBarnett18

I need to chill he says.
Uhm hello hormones u doing that crap isn't gonna make me chill !

MrsQueale

I was thinking the same thing. If you allow it and don't express your expectations in the relationship, then he'll keep doing it. It sucks he's picked this time to be immature instead of growing up.

babycrazy10

He needs to be more supportive. I hope you guys can work it out. You don't need to be stressed right now!

KellyBrisbin

That really stinks. Sounds like a sit down discussion is in order. Be aware of the hormonal monster raging in you though. Which brings me to my next point...are 100% sure that he was flirting with someone? Not defending him in the slightest, but you wa

Firefly1220

How long have you been together? How old are you guys?

notkateanymore

How old is he? How old are you? Honestly, this sounds like he's super immature and doesn't know how to act like a real man/father. There is no way you have to be OK with it. 

AleeaBarnett18

Ha my version of flirting is... Him telling other girls they looked HOT in that outfit. ::he's 24... Who tells a girls she's hot at that age?:: something along the lines of oh that's looks nice on you. Would be more understanding!
And then was texti

MariJ1008

LuckyLinds:

And this is why you don't have babies with someone til you're happily married...I'm sorry you are goin

AleeaBarnett18

I'm 21.

AleeaBarnett18

Love it! Haha

AleeaBarnett18

And no this wasn't planned or anything, but it was a topic we always discussed.
I just find it so funny that he would be doing that now.
I'm finally away from home and going to walk! Calmed down!
Thanks for listening!

KMB827

Yeah, that's not OK. If my husband were to do anything like that, you better believe he'd hear about it and I wouldn't trust him. He has no reason to be talking to other girls like that, at all. Sounds like he has some growing up to do.

MariJ1008

ColeRose:

LuckyLind

notkateanymore

MariJ1008:

ColeRose

MrsQueale

MariJ1008:

LuckyLinds:<

MariJ1008

KateMW:

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Shadow512

I think what LuckyLinds was meaning to say is that it isn't a good idea to have a baby until you are in a loving, stable and COMMITTED relationship... most often a marriage. Who can argue that bringing a child into a situation without two committed paren

MEP923

ColeRose:

LuckyLind

lp0

Wow! My DH would be picking his teeth up off the ground if he was flirting/texting other girls and then turned around and told me to chill. OP go with your gut, pregnancy hormones have nothing to do with it. A man with zero intentions does not go looking

Shadow512

Loolaide:

I also disagree with your statement that TWO committed parents are required to properl

ChrisnTris

LuckyLinds:

And this is why you don't have babies with someone til you're happilynbsp;married...I'm sorry you are going through thi

mightymousy

While OP, you and your bf don't really make a good case that you're ready to be starting a family. I do hope everything works out of your though. But thank you to all the ladies who defended that marriage does not equal a committed relationship with th

zou bisou

The more stable the relationship the better.  If that means married, ok.  If that doesn't mean married, ok.  

Though I am confused when people view marriage as more commitment to each other than having kids is.  Why not

zou bisou

And to the OP, I'm stumped.  If he went out and flirted and got caught, it doesn't sound like something that happens rarely.  A heart-to-heart between him and you or him and someone he'll listen to would be good.  But ultimately you can't c

esf60

LuckyLinds:

And this is why you don't have babies with someone til you're happilynbsp;married...I'm sorry you are going through thi

MrsQueale

zou bisou:

The more stable the relationship the better. If that means married, ok. If that doesn't mean married, ok. Though I am co

MarieC78

To answer previous questions of why would a couple that's not married plan to have children...

I care very little about a wedding, white dress or fancy dinners, and I especially don't want to spend the money.

My mom asked if a trip to Vega