Well, the news frankly was not great and I've spent the last couple of hours in a daze. Of the 9 retrieved, 8 were mature but only 2 fertilized. I am in shock and while it's much better than 0, it still hurts. I know "it only takes one" and I say that all the time, but I'm still devastated and scared because the probabilities are not great and I'm just sooooo tired of this. I am so so so sad and I am trying too f-ing hard to keep it together. IF is so unfair.
I got the report from the nurse so I'm waiting for a call back from my Dr. to discuss and get his perspective. We are definitely doing a 3 day transfer.
Any positive reinforcement for Grads who had low numbers with success would be incredibly helpful. And every ounce of prayer and good thoughts you can send my way would be very much appreciated. It's going to be a pretty sh*tty next couple of weeks
Re: Fert Report In
I hope these two are superstars and you get the happiest news in 2 weeks.
1st BFP-8/17/12! Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US. D&C.
2nd BFP-2/13/13! Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
3rd BFP-5/22/13! By early June, progesterone plummeting. Another loss.
August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
Dear Son born 5/28/14
Ah, nuts. I'm sorry the report wasn't what you'd hoped.
FX for a good outcome, though!
AMA & SAIF. TTC #1 since Oct. 2010. DX: Unexplained. BFP on break after 32 months trying and 2 med cycles. Baby girl born at 40w0d!
jbelle
My Ovulation Chart
Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
3 cycles clomid with Ob,
1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.
May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN
May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't.
February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing.
SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!
Miscarriage 4/23/15
No. They only ICSI if there are known is
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!