Boobs and Stupid DH

supersarah77

For the longest time my boobs didn't change at all. Recently they've grown a cup size and I made a couple startling discoveries the other day: now they are veiny, and, the left nipple has some tiny dark brown freckles on the areola.

So DH and I are laying in bed last night and I share this, feeling like these new developments are pretty unattractive. He asks to see them for himself and goes, "Look, the left nipple is bigger than the right one, too. It's definitely the dominant nipple, hahaha. She's going to go right for that one every time. HAHAHAHA!!!"

I burst into tears and he immediately started apologizing but too late it was out there. I said I wanted to be left alone. He came back in 20 mins later and apologized over and over saying how beautiful I am and of course I forgave him but gawd. Stupid DH. What was he thinking?!

hollandmama

This sounds like something my DH would say too haha I'm sure he didn't want to be mean... I laugh about my changing body along with DH but I guess it comes different on everyone...

I'm so hairy on my back and on my belly (having a boy) that he t

PrimRoseMama

I'm sorry that bothered you. Perhaps you are sensitive about other changes going on and this was just the last straw for you? It really doesn't sound like your husband meant it to make fun of you, but just to be light hearted. I don't think he meant to

AllMyDucksInARow

I don't get why that's a big deal... Sounds like he was kidding around with you.

kcox123

I would have laughed with him too.

But I understand feeling unattractive. I pretty much feel that way for 9 months each pregnancy. SO GLAD this is my last.

Sarah32

This made me LOL

minouvan

I'm sorry he upset you... At least he didn't say something like "ugh, I will never look at your boobs the same way again" which is what my SO says every time BFing comes up.

So I tease him that I'm going to squirt him in the eye some day. Pa

SASSY1JA

Sorry I think that was actually pretty funny. If it makes you feel better my DH has had two good ones. First a few months ago he caught me looking in the mirror at my stomach it seemed to really have popped. I thought he was downstairs he proceeded to say

supersarah77

We don't point and laugh at each others' body parts, this was definitely a foot-in-mouth moment for us. Add pg hormones to that and you get tears. Generally DH has been pretty amazing my whole pregnancy and for that I am grateful. We all have foot-in-mout

miss2697

I can see how that would upset you. For the most part, DH and I joke around about my body and so far I haven't had any burst into tears moments yet. In particular, we like to check the belly button daily to see if it's popped out yet. I think it's good fo

kcox123

Superzuber:

We don't point and laugh at each others' body parts, this was definitely a foot-in-mouth moment for us. Add pg hor

weaslewam

OMG what a dumb thing to say. I'm glad he apologized!!!

thegoodpotato

I'm with you on this one. I'm sooooooo sensitive about the way I look right now. I can barely stand to see myself from the boobs down in the mirror... And even my boobs gross me out these days. DH says he loves them but I've alway been small breasted, and

thegoodpotato

Whoops, I meant to say knockers. Stupid phone.