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Disagree with DH about sleep training

So DD is 6 months old. Up until now she's been a good sleeper. This week she has a little cold, plus I went back to work 3 weeks ago & so she is more needy to fall asleep & stay asleep. She ends up in our bed 2-3 hours a night. I thought I could get away not needing to sleep train- wrong!

Anyway- I never thought I'd co-sleep before I had a baby & now I actually like it. I'm not married to it though because DH isn't for it. The biggest disagreement is the old CIO. He wants to, I do not. I read the no-cry sleep solution & that's more my style.

How did you resolve disagreeing about sleep training?

TTC since 1/2008
BFP 7/2009 m/c
BFP 9/2009 m/c
Clomid IUI 12/2010, 1/2011, 2/2011 All BFN
IVF #1 6/2011 BFN, no frosties
IVF #2 2/2012 BFP
DD born 10/2012
FET 9/3/2013 BFN, no more frosties
IVF # 3 11/3/13 Canceled after retrieval d/t severe OHSS, 3 frosties
FET #3 2/2014 BFP Twins!
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Re: Disagree with DH about sleep training

  • My DH suggested CIO the other day and I just started reading studies on it and he was quick to see it my way...also our DD STTN so this is pretty irrelevant or us,
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    Always go with the more gentle approach first. Give it a solid 2 weeks. If it doesn't work... The compromise is CIO.
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  • I'm going through your exact same situation!  DH wants to let DS CIO, but I just can't do it.  I have rocked and nursed LO to sleep every night since he's been born and he has no problem falling sleep, it's just staying asleep.  I have just
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  • I'm in the same boat. Starting last weekend we've been transitioning DS from RnP to crib. DS is really struggling with the change. The first couple of nights DH stood over crying baby and said "Let's let him CIO. I can sleep with this." I was shocked sinc
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  • DHs buddy's at work told him to do CIO. I told him no. I have done research, plus took family psychology in university. We make most decisions together, but he isn't informed enough. Our issue is napping, so I'm using the no cry nap solution, and making s
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  • ahahaha- yes ladies- you are correct that he has done no research & has no clue! he's a good guy though, so I think he'll come around. thanks for the support.
    TTC since 1/2008
    BFP 7/2009 m/c
    BFP 9/2009 m/c
    Clomid IUI 12/2010, 1/2011, 2/2011 All BFN
    IVF #1 6/2011 BFN, no frosties
    IVF #2 2/2012 BFP
    DD born 10/2012
    FET 9/3/2013 BFN, no more frosties
    IVF # 3 11/3/13 Canceled after retrieval d/t severe OHSS, 3 frosties
    FET #3 2/2014 BFP Twins!
    B/G Twins born 9/2014 at 36w4d

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