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kdy85kdy85
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So, a girl that works with a company that's one of my contracts just had a baby girl. We were pretty good acquaintances and talked about our pregnancys often. She was out on maternity leave when I lost her so I haven't spoken to her since but this account knows me very well so I know she found out. I was in the lobby just now and she came out walked right past me got a cup and walked right back. I'm used to the ackward stares and the insensitive comments but flat out ignorning me hurts like he.ll. I wish I could crawl back under my rock.
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  • fluttergirlmoonchild79fluttergirlmoonchild79 member

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    I'm sorry sweetie.  It does suck.  Just tell yourself that if she would have said something that it would have been something highly inappropriate making you wish she had said n

     

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  • kdy85kdy85
    Yeah.. I would of been happy with just a smile or a hello.. like I said we spoke all the time I was there about 3 times a week. I wish child loss wasn't so taboo...
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  • NoetholaNoethola member

    I am so very sorry. There is also the off chance that she feels for you so deeply (and feel guilty for her own baby surviving) that she would have broken down had she talked to you. I had someone like that. She just couldnt bring herself to talk t

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  • Bayberry12Bayberry12 member

    I am so sorry that happened.  Some people just suck.  

    People not acknowledging your loss because they are "uncomfortable" is completely wrong.  If they feel too sad to say anything, they should imagine how you feel.  I had a

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  • JennyLynneJennyLynne member

    I'm so sorry that happened to you. I went back to work this week after 4 weeks, and I felt like I had the plague. I was mostly avoided/ignored by 99% of the people. There were very few who did acknowledge me, and only 5 of those people in the last 3 da

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  • Poppy715Poppy715 member
    Oh I'm sorry!! That is an awful way to react to this situation. ((HUGS))

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  • kdy85kdy85
    I've gotten the hey mamma and how's the baby.. while it's odd to think this.. the look on their face is priceless like i'm about to tell them I just punked them... sucks!
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