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panther422516

I'm 34 will be 35 in may and just had miscarrage at 11w5d but they said baby died at 9 weeks....anyway since it will be probably 3 months past my 35 bday before I can try to convince my dh who doesn't want anymore kids we have 1 6yrold boy. This pregnancy was surprise I was on the pill to try for another, have u ladies noticed that its harder to concieve naturally after 35..to me I'm pushing it cause I feel to old to be having another child but the loss of the surprise makes me realize I would like another child..not to mention my son has been begging for years for a sibling and is very upset about the loss of this baby..my dh reasoning is because we don't have enough money for a second child...I'm not sure if that's the only reason or not we didn't talk about it. There is more back story to our lives about his reaso9ning and the birth of our son. But I guess that's another time for that story. Thanks for listening and advice/info