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Goodbye Again

I had my second D&C today (3rd miscarriage). We saw the heart beat twice this time before it stopped at 10 weeks. The sad thing was today was our first angels EDD. Thank you for your support even if I was more of a lurker. Also, I did have one question, how many women out there have had three miscarriages in a row and then had a healthy pregnancy. Would love to hear some success stories. I know we will need to take a break and figure out whether ttc again is something we are willing to do or if we should look into adoption. Thank you again.

TTC Since June 2012 BFP #1 08/01/12, D&C 09/07/12 9 weeks, Blighted Ovum BFP #2 01/01/13 m/c 5 weeks BFP #3 03/02/13 D&C 4/15/13 m/c 11 weeks, 07/19/13 Hysteroscopy for Scar Tissue, 9/12813 Hysteroscopy & Laparoscopy for Scar Tissue, Cleared to TTC October 2013. 

BFP # 4 11/01/2013 EDD 07/12/14

Dear God, Since I couldn't hold my little one in my lap and tell him about you, could you hold him in your lap and tell him about me?

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    I'm sorry.
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    BFP 7.7.09 - CVS 9.10.09 (Girl) - 9.24.09 Severe Fatal Malformation - D&E 10.7.09 @ 17wks
    BFP 6.1.10 - 6.10.10 Ectopic M/C @ 5wks
    BFP 10.26.10 - 10.29.10 CP
    BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
    BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
    BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
    BFP 6.10.14 - CVS 7.2.14 (Girl) - EDD 1.12.15 - Born sleeping 8.6.14 @ 17w5d
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    I'm so sorry :(
    BFP#1 9/28/2012 - EDD 6/3/2013 - MMC discovered 11/21/2012 @ 12w2d - D&C 11/24/2012
    BFP#2 4/4/2013 - Born at 37w3d on 11/26/13 via emergency c-section
    Loving our beautiful rainbow baby boy Archer!
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    I am so so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))


    TTC since August 2011
    BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
    "If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh

    BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!
    Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
    Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
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    I'm so sorry for your losses.
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    So sorry for your loss. I've had 3 consecutive losses and now in week 8 with what appears to be a healthy pregnancy. However, I am not taking anything for granted. Have you seen an RE for repeat loss testing yet? I'd highly recommend it.
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    So sorry for you and your angel babies. My husbands cousin had 3 miscarriages and fourth was a healthy girl. It's difficult but don't loose hope! hugs
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    I am so, so sorry for your losses. I really am.

    I also suffered three losses prior to this pregnancy. My first one was very fast. I never really knew how far along I was and so it probably was chemical. The second was discovered at 13 weeks and t

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    I am so sorry for your losses.
    BFP #1 and m/c on 10/24/2010 ~6wks
    BFP #2 07/12/2012 (EDD 03/23/13); m/c 07/28/12
    BFP #3 12/05/2012 (EDD 08/19/2013); baby girl born 08/09!
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    Thank you for all of your wishes and for the positive stories. I saw an RE after our second loss. All test results came back normal. We still have one more test we can do. They are also trying to test the fetus, although they told me not to get my ho

    TTC Since June 2012 BFP #1 08/01/12, D&C 09/07/12 9 weeks, Blighted Ovum BFP #2 01/01/13 m/c 5 weeks BFP #3 03/02/13 D&C 4/15/13 m/c 11 weeks, 07/19/13 Hysteroscopy for Scar Tissue, 9/12813 Hysteroscopy & Laparoscopy for Scar Tissue, Cleared to TTC October 2013. 

    BFP # 4 11/01/2013 EDD 07/12/14

    Dear God, Since I couldn't hold my little one in my lap and tell him about you, could you hold him in your lap and tell him about me?

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    I'm so sorry you are going through this. ((Hugs)) I hope you are able to get some answers.

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    I am so sorry. I had 6 losses before this current pregnancy with no explanation as to why. lBig hugs to you during this time.
    MC 4/09 at 6w2d 
    Rainbow Jude 
    born: 12/31/09
    Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
    11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection

    TTC#2 10/2010
    M/C: 4/09/11 5w
    CP: 12/26/2011 
    CP: 1/28/2012 
    MMC: 4/16/2012 at 11w2d 
    Ectopic: 6/25/2012 MTX 07/03/12
    CP 11/24/2012 
    Rainbow Violet 
    born: 9/11/13

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    Oh no, I am so very sorry for your loss and the added pain of it being on your first angels EDD. Huge (((hugs)))
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    EDD 1/31/13, MC May 17. EDD 3/31/13, MC July 26. I miss you so much already my angel loves

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    I'm sorry ((HUGS))
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    I am so sorry for your loss.  ((HUGS))
    BFP #1- 12/3/09, EDD- 8/7/10, Missed M/C at 8 weeks & D&C- 1/5/10, BFP #2- July 2010, Baby Charlie Born March 29, 2011, BFP #3- 4/12/12- EDD- 12/21/12, Missed M/C at 10 1/2 weeks 5/29/12, D&C 6/1/12- testing results showed triploidy, IF testing all normal, February 2013- IUI#1, femara, follistim, trigger =BFN, March 2013- IUI#2, femara, follistim, trigger= BFP #4, 3/20/12, Beta#1 16dpo= 397, Beta #2 18dpo= 1037, Beta#3 24dpo= 11,589- EDD 11/30/13- It's a Girl!!! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
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    So Sorry for you loss.  I had 3 miscarriages in a row (1 chemical, 1 blighted ovum, and 1 found at 11 weeks after seeing the heartbeat at 8 and 9 weeks.)  I am now almost 17 weeks pregnant and so far so good.  I had all the RLP testing done
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    M/C #1 Chemical Pregnancy Aug 2011
    M/C #2 Blighted Ovum Feb 2012
    M/C #3 Missed Miscarriage after HB Aug 2012
    BFP #4 1/12/13 EDD: 9/26/13 Betas 12DPO: 45, 14DPO: 156, 19DPO: 904, 21DPO: 1,972, 26DPO: 12,230, 28DPO: 22,017
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    Oh dear, I am so sorry. Hugs
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    BFP #2 10/2011. EDD 7/11/12. MMC discovered 11/2/11. D&C 11/4/11.
    DX PCOS 10/2012.
    BFP#3 1/11/13. DS Born 9/17/2013
    BFP#4 9/30/17. Grow baby grow! 
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    I'm so sorry.  What an awful day. 
    TTC since Feb 2012. Me: 39, DH: 37
    BFP #1 5/27/12- m/c 7/9/12 @ 10w2d (cytotec induced @11w).
    Fibroids, Hashimoto's Hypothyroidism
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    I'm also sorry for your losses. I have had two. Ditto the repeat loss testing. I am on progesterone this time. I would also suggest getting DH checked. Make sure he isn't a carrier of something.
    I am very sorry for what you have gone through.




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    I am so so sorry. I am pregnant now after 6 losses in a row without an answer as to why. Big big hugs. 
    MC 4/09 at 6w2d 
    Rainbow Jude 
    born: 12/31/09
    Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
    11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection

    TTC#2 10/2010
    M/C: 4/09/11 5w
    CP: 12/26/2011 
    CP: 1/28/2012 
    MMC: 4/16/2012 at 11w2d 
    Ectopic: 6/25/2012 MTX 07/03/12
    CP 11/24/2012 
    Rainbow Violet 
    born: 9/11/13

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    I am so sorry for your loss. I had three consecutive losses after my first uneventful pregnancy. After those losses, I went on to have a strong, healthy little boy. One more loss and now here I am again 12 weeks along.

    I hope you find some he
    Mommy to Alden, born May 19, 2007 - best birthday present ever! natural m/c October 20, 2008 at 8w1d BFP April 4, 2009! Missed m/c discovered May 1, 2009 D&C May 12,2009 BFP March 3, 2010 Chemical pregnancy BFP May 25, 2010 Elias Derek born January 26, 2011! Surprise BFP October 24, 2012 Missed m/c confirmed Nov 26 D&C Nov 30 Surprise BFP February 13, 2013
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    I'm so sorry.
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    I'm really sorry for your loss, and I wish you and your family the best going forward.
    BFP #1 - Mango - 6/11/12, EDD 2/22/12 Natural MC 7/15/12
    BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
    All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
    Back to normal business December 2012
    BFP #3 - Froggy - 1/15/13, EDD 9/27/13 TEAM GREEN
    It's a girl! Alice - Born 9/20/13, 8lbs 2oz

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    I'm so very sorry. ((hugs)) 
    TTC since June 2011
    BFP #1 11/18/11 - m/c 12/24/11 blighted ovum - EDD 08/01/12
    BFP #2 08/04/12 - m/c 08/29/12 no answers - EDD 04/17/13
    BFP #3 10/01/12 - m/c 10/30/12 uniparental disomy - EDD 06/04/13
    BFP #4 04/12/13 - EDD 12/22/13  It's a GIRL!
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    I'm so sorry.
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    So sorry for your loss. 
    BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

    BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    I am so very sorry to hear this, thinking of you
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    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending many thoughts and prayers your way. .

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    I'm so sorry for your loss...
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    BFP 1 - March 26, 2012, MMC discovered May 21, 2012
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    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending many thoughts and prayers your way and big (((hugs)))

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    M/C 7/8/12

    Perfect baby boy born 7/8/13

    BFP 8/20/14 EDD 4/27/15 It's a GIRL!!

     

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    I am so very sorry for your loss!

    m/c 2002 7w2d
    bfp 9.6.12 | edd 5.17.13 | m/c 9.19.12 5w5d

    bfp 10.18.12 | edd 6/28/13

    beta#1 10.18.12 - 96 / progestrone 32 || beta#2 10.22.12 - 711 || beta#3 10.25.12 - 2608 DD born 6/27/13

    bfp 7.16.14 | edd 3/27/15

    beta#1 7.18.14 - 149 || beta#2 7.21.14 - ??


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    Sorry to hear this.

    My cousin had 4 miscarriages in a row before getting her take home baby, so it definitely does happen.

    BFP #1 09/15/09, MMC 09/28/09
    BFP #2 06/04/12, EDD 02/09/13, MC at 6w3d on 06/18/12
    BFP #3 01/16/13, EDD 10/04/13, Born 09/17/13

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    I'm so very sorry. (Hugs)
    TTC #1 since January 2011
    BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
    BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
    After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
    Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!! 
    BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
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    Huge hugs. I am so very sorry for your losses.
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    So sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my T&P.

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    I am so incredibly sorry. Take care.

     

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    IVF#1~ 8/2012~ 13 frosties~ BFP! OHSS
    12/4/12 Luke & Kyle born @ 18 weeks
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    I am so very sorry for your losses.
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    I'm so sorry.  No advice, just ((hugs)).
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    ::hugs:: We lost 5 babies before bringing our rainbow home. I'm now pregnant with our second hopeful rainbow.

    You may want to look into seeing an RE and getting some testing done. They may be able to pinpoint some possible loss causes and h
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