How is your relationship?

Justasillyae1

Sorry for the AE...I used to be a regular here and post more in the FB groups now but not ready to come "out" with my issues. How is your relationship with DH now that LO has been here a year? I thought we'd be in a better place by now that LO is a year but eh...still a work in progress. So just curious how everyone else is doing. Be honest   if your relationship is the best it's ever been, tell me! I like to hear happy stories, too, even when I'm bummin', lol.

joyfullyfound

I'm sorry to hear you and your DH are in a rough patch Have you looked into seeing a counsellor? Or maybe first starting a weekly date night, where you get a sitter and get out for the evening just the two of you? I really believe time alone togethe

lindslalala

I'm sorry that you and your DH are having a tough time. I think most couples go through rough patches after becoming parents. It's a crazy transition.

Honestly, my relationship with DH is probably the best it's ever been. He is a great dad, appre

nunzchucks

Everything joyfullyfound said. DH felt like we lost who we were together before we had DD. We needed to schedule couple time at first until it became more natural.

Best of luck!

Ps...joyfullyfoundI know you lurk here still, but

Wipz

Same as always with less sex .. between opposite work schedules and now the munchkin we grab it where we can lol..it's somewhere on the honey do list between laundry and grocery shopping. 

We still argue about stuff ..I'm an Aries

Sparks in training!

I would say our status changes regularly! LOL. Some days, I struggle with resentment issues towards DH's lack of help. But know that its just part of marriage. Pick the battles and just try to work on the positive. 

countrygrl5533

Sparks in training!:

I would say our status changes regularly! LOL. Some days, I struggle with resentment issues towards DH's

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We've had a tough time. I think we both have PPD but I'm the only one that's sought out help for it. DH sleeps in the guest room because he can't sleep with DS in bed [I cosleep under duress]. I have no libido and when we try to have sex we're either inte

missmissie82

You aren't alone.  G says "I can't imagine ever getting a divorce" when talking about friends going through one.  And I think "do you not notice how shitty things are some days?"  It's not that we're broken, it's just that I'm exhausted