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XP:Update, home from amnio

Long story short: had my amnio today, but after trying to see him with the exterior u/s (can't remember what it's called) the Dr had to do it transvaginaly.  DH and I immediately saw the heartbeat and baby boy moving like crazy.  It was heartbreaking because everything looked absolutely perfect to me...like the nightmare was over.  But after the initial u/s the dr said he could see dilated kidneys, a protrusion on the umbilical cord which he believes is part of the bowels which is obviously not normal.  The worst news is of the brain.  There is hydrocephalus in a quadrant. . 

Once he saw this by u/s, then he attempted the amnio. He had to try twice with two different needles. I definitely had some cramping on the inside. It wasn't extreme but it did hurt somewhat. He did not get the sample of amniotic fluid he needed.  He tried twice and said that he didn't feel comfortable trying any further until the baby has grown a bit more.  So, I have to wait until April 23 to have this done...again. Crying  This is a total nightmare.  So we're waiting even longer now to verify the inevitable. 

Thank you all, once again, for all of your thoughts and prayers as we try to get through all of this.  

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  • I'm so sorry.  

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  • I'm so sorry to hear the u/s seems to have confirmed the diagnosis...and even more sorry that they weren't able to get the sample needed for the amnio.  It was hard enough seeing that done once, I can't imagine twice.  Is there any way they c

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  • I'm so sorry, sweetie.  Lots of (((((hugs)))))).  I hope the time passes as quickly as possible for you.
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    I'm so sorry to hear the u/s seems to have confirmed the diagnosis...and even more sorry that they weren't able

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  • ::::hugs:::: my heart is breaking for you. I'm so sorry for all you've been through already and I hate that you need to wait even longer. Thinking of you and your family and sending prayers.
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  • Huge hugs and T&Ps sent your way. I'm so sorry you are going through a very difficult time.
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  • OMG i am so sorry they werent able to get it.  And even more sorry that you have to wait {{HUGS}}
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  • My heart is absolutely breaking for you right now.  I am so, so sorry that this is happening to you.  (((MASSIVE HUGS)))

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  • I am so, so very sorry you are going through this.  I also had to undergo an amnio and I know the wait you are going through is unbearable.  If you ever want to talk or need a shoulder to cry on, please feel free to PM me.  You're in my pra
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