jealous of my cat

ck2d

Am I a lunatic?  I'm 41 and I have an 11 year old son and I'm dying for another baby.  I wanted my son to be able to experience pregnancy and birth, and it doesn't look like it's happening for me, so I allowed our cat to get pregnant.  She's getting wider every day, and everyone's getting excited for the new kittens.  But I'm suddenly feeling very depressed and worthless, and beating myself up for literally being jealous of my cat.  Can that possibly be normal?

MsJazzy73

I do truly understand the envy that can rise up out of us at just the sight of another pregnant person. So who's to say it's any different when it's your beloved pet? I mean yes, as everyone is excited about the upcoming kittens and doting on the mothe

ck2d

The worst thing about it is the cat isn't too happy about being pregnant.  She seems to be really confused, and is not liking waddling around.  I look at her and want to yell at her to appreciate what's going on with her.  And then I fee

dragonfly711

ck2d:

The worst thing about it is the cat isn't too happy about being pregnant.nbsp; She seems to be really confused, and is not li

ck2d

She is due somewhere around May 6th. I think I'm so thrown by this because it came out of left field. I can brace myself when I hear about someone else getting pregnant, but my cat flipping me out? This was a planned pregnancy - and I think there must

dragonfly711

ck2d:

She is due somewhere around May 6th. I think I'm so thrown by this because it came out of left field. I can brace myself wh

happywifemomofone

BIg (((hugs))). Seems that the world is expecting when you are trying month after month without success.  Hope that your turn comes soon.

ck2d

Thank you so much for your support.  I feel like it's a pipe dream at this point.  I waited too long.  My son is autistic, and I wanted to get him to a good place before I had another baby that would take up all my time.  I j