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CeCe8579
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Prayers needed, NSIFR!
CeCe8579
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I don't know where else to post this. You girls are my support so I hope no one minds if I post this here.
My ex's girlfriend is 29 weeks pregnant. She was admitted to the hospital last night because she was leaking fluid and having contractions. They put her on magnesium for the contractions and extreme bed rest while keeping her in the hospital. They were trying to get the baby to stay put as long as possible but this morning her water broke. The baby will be coming soon.
We haven't told DD since this will be her half sister and at 6 yrs old, she doesn't need to worry. I feel bad for not telling her. Am I making the wrong decision? We will tell her when the baby is born and she will know she's early because she knew the baby wasn't supposed to come until summer.
Please keep mom and baby in your thoughts and prayers. I don't want them to loose the baby or have any complications with either of them. The baby is weighing 3.8 lbs right now and the OB seems extremely positive. They lost a baby last year around this time at 18 weeks.
I just don't think my daughter could handle things at all if anything bad were to happen. I am scared and nervous for everyone involved.
Thanks for listening!
My ex's girlfriend is 29 weeks pregnant. She was admitted to the hospital last night because she was leaking fluid and having contractions. They put her on magnesium for the contractions and extreme bed rest while keeping her in the hospital. They were trying to get the baby to stay put as long as possible but this morning her water broke. The baby will be coming soon.
We haven't told DD since this will be her half sister and at 6 yrs old, she doesn't need to worry. I feel bad for not telling her. Am I making the wrong decision? We will tell her when the baby is born and she will know she's early because she knew the baby wasn't supposed to come until summer.
Please keep mom and baby in your thoughts and prayers. I don't want them to loose the baby or have any complications with either of them. The baby is weighing 3.8 lbs right now and the OB seems extremely positive. They lost a baby last year around this time at 18 weeks.
I just don't think my daughter could handle things at all if anything bad were to happen. I am scared and nervous for everyone involved.
Thanks for listening!
Carly
(Former UN: iloveshanej)
Birdie born 05/01/2007
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017
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Re: Prayers needed, NSIFR!
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017
Dx: PCOS and short luteal phase
18 cycles (3 with our RE) - Metformin + Clomid + HCG booster did the trick!
BFP #1 6/22/09 EDD: 3/2/10 DS born: 3/8/10
TTC #2 since Dec 2011
BFP #2 7/8/12 EDD: 3/18/12 M/C @ 9w1d: 8/16/12
I've known 2 sets of twins and a singleton born more 10 weeks earlier and all are very healthy. I'm just worried. I'm scared for something to happen or for DD to see her sibling in NICU or sick. It all stresses me out so much!
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017
Me: 42. DH: 46.
1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.
2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.
3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.
4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.
5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.
Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN. After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.
August 16, 2013: BFP our first month of "not trying!" Still in shock. Beta #1 (14dpo): 183. Beta #2 (17dpo): 611. Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm!
Ultrasound 9/13/13: 8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
Baby is due 4/26/14
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5/07 - DD conceived naturally cycle #1
8/09 - Started TTC #2
11/10 - BFP!
12/10 - MC (Chemical Pregnancy)
2/11 - IUI #1 with clomid & trigger = BFN
5/11- Switched to a Fertility Specialist, Dx with low progesterone and annovulatory, several rounds of
clomid = BFN's
4/12 - Exploratory Lap, Dx Stage III endo
5/12 - 7/12 - Lupron injections to suppress AF and reduce scar tissue
8/12 - Surgery to remove tissue, uterus and tubes clear!
9/12-12/12 - More BFN's!
1/13 - Referred to an RE
2/13 - IUI #1 with injects and new RE = BFN
3/13 - 4/13 - Break due to cysts
5/13 - IUI #2 with injects (125ml bravelle + trigger) = BFP!!!
EDD - 1/23/14
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017