DH threw me for a BIG loop this morning...in a good way!

jengsu2004 · April 2013

A little back story...I've always known I wanted 2 kids and hopefully by the time I'm 35. After DS was born last year, we really struggled to be romantic with each other. I had a really tough time getting my "mojo" back and wanted NOTHING to do with sex b/c of basic hormones and breastfeeding for 13 months. DH was very frustrated and said for the longest time he wasn't sure he wanted a 2nd baby for the fact that it really messed up our sexy time and how he didn't want to go through that again.

Since I stopped breastfeeding after DS turned 13 months, my "mojo" is back, and we're better than ever. Yay! I want to wait til summer '14 to start TTC again so we can eliminate some more debt, I can have my body back for a bit, and let DS grow and mature a little more before adding on.

This morning, DH confessed that he is ready for baby #2 NOW! Even though I still want to wait til 2014, and he understands and is ok with that, what a shocker for him to confess that! I used to feel like baby #2 might not be an option b/c we both feel like we both need to be on board for us to make that commitment, and if we both aren't, then we need to table it. But now, I know it's ON the table! Woohoo!

That's all...just a little bit of happy news!