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I am back! :(

jchow009jchow009 member
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I am sorry to tell you ladies that I went for another u/s today, the baby stopped growing.  So I need to decide a natural miscarriage or D&C.  Any insight is welcome.  It's a bit of shock becuase I had no cramp, spotting or bleeding. My H and I are sad but we will manage. 

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  • HeathernStevenHeathernSteven member
    Oh jchow i am so sorry! I hope this goes smoothly for you, i am truly am sorry.

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    What! Oh jchow I am so sorry. Big hugs to you and YH.

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • jbellejbelle member

    :-( 

    I am so sorry. 

    AMA & SAIF. TTC #1 since Oct. 2010. DX: Unexplained. BFP on break after 32 months trying and 2 med cycles. Baby girl born at 40w0d!

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  • ksgsmuksgsmu member
    I am so sorry for your loss :(
    ***siggy/ticker warning***

    Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
    IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
    FET 5/20- BFP
    1st Beta- 641
    2nd beta- 2166
    Sono- TWINS!!!!
    Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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  • Jacque SillsJacque Sills member
    I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  I don't have any advice since I have not gotten that far in a pregnancy.  Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.....so, sorry.
    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
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  • Lenox1975Lenox1975 member

    Oh my god NOOOOOO!  Jchow, I am so stunned and sad for you.  I have been there and now how terrible this is.  For me, I started m/c naturally but if your body isn't doing that, I think a D&C is probably the safest and emotionally eas

    Me: 37 DH: 37 TTC since Jan 2012. RE consult and initial testing done in Aug 2012: SA fine, AMH 1.1 & HSG clear - on way to IUI but got BFP on 9/10/2012. m/c 10/3/2012 at 6w5d. BFP next cycle which was a c/p. IUI #1: Clomid 100mg 12/6= BFN. IUI#2 (unmedicated) Jan 2013 = BFN. Hysteroscopy 1/25/13. IUI#3 Clomid 100mg 2/23 = BFN IUI# 4: BFN. IVF #1 April 2013, BFP!  EDD 1/12/14 with Boy!
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  • UnknownUnknown
    Hi. I'm brand new to this site. I just wanted to tell u a little bout my experience. I mc and did on my own but contained to bleed and clot and had immense pain that led to the dc. My md said now its a great start to start over trying cause it was " all
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  • happywifemomofonehappywifemomofone member
    So sorry to hear of your loss.  (((hugs))) to you and I hope that you take good care of yourself.
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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  • jchow009jchow009 member
    I really appreciate the support and kind words.  I am going to schedule a D&C next week.  Not easy, but I know we will get through.
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  • icogburnicogburn member
    I am so very sorry for your loss! Big hugs and prayers going up for you.
    Me:37 DH:40 Married 7/2009 TTC since 5/2012 
    BFP 4/2013, Our Christmas Miracle Due 12/18/2013
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  • irishgirl0525irishgirl0525 member

    Ticker warning...

     I'm so sorry for your loss, I know what you are going through. 

    I would definitely recommend a D&C. I had one after my m/c in December, mainly because it was right before Christmas and I didn't want to risk

    TTC since 3/2010. Me 41, DH-49. After 3 years, 6 IUIs and several IVFs we have finally have our beautiful baby girl, born on 11/7/13.



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  • PPL2011PPL2011 member

    I'm so sorry to hear. My thoughts are with you and your husband.

    I've had two miscarriages and found the d&e *less* traumatizing than the natural miscarriage. Also, with a d&e, your doctor could do testing to see what that problem was wit

     

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  • GuennieGuennie member
    Ticker warning...

    I am so so sorry to hear this and know what you are going through. I'm glad you've decided to schedule the DC because sometimes the body can hang on for a long time and it can be emotionally traumatic. Losing a pregnancy i
    Me:41, DH:41 Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. One daughter born on Thanksgiving in 2013. Six losses.
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  • QOTRQOTR member
    I'm so sorry.
    Me-41, Hubby-40.
    1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
    Dear Son born 5/28/14
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  • svega232svega232
    I'm so sorry for your loss :(
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