Would you be mad at your DH?

NM86

Okay so DH went to Vegas 2 weeks ago. I stayed home with DS. I was ticked off because I asked him not to go, especially since I have class at nights and have no one to watch DS, but he went any way. Whatever. We dealt with it and moved on.

Now this week he's in Florida for work. Okay, so I get it is work so I am not mad that he had to go.

What I am mad about is that the whole time he has barely spoken to me. Last night he got back to his hotel and he called me and said, "Hey I can't talk long I'm playing cards..." Seriously? I haven't heard from him all day and that's what I get? Then we talk for a few seconds and that's it. Now today, I haven't heard from him all day again and then I get a call where he butt dialed me and guess where my dear husband is at? A bar. WTF? He couldn't find time to give me a call in between work and going to the bar?

I'm so pissed at him. He doesn't even care that I am at home with DS struggling to get homework done...I have no breaks, have to deal with everything on my own and on top of it DH can't even give it a second thought to call me and ask how I am doing or tell me he loves me and that he misses me?

DS doesn't even care that he is gone, and now neither do I. 

Am I being too hard on him? I don't think I am...I mean come on. He can sit and play cards or go to the bar with his buddies but can't find 5 minutes to call his wife? ugh. I'm mad and sad...

karleegirl

I'd be a bit irritated yes. Especially after the bar but dial.

NM86

I've called and texted him, I don't expect him to be the only one to call. I did write him an email and explained why I was upset.

His response? I'm sorry but after a long day I just want to relax.

So yeah...I'm done. He can go and have a

buckeyebride22

I'd be pissed.  DH and I text throughout the day when I'm home and he's working.  I would expect the same if he was on a trip.  I'd like to think if I asked him to not go on a guys trip he wouldn't.....I know I would stay home if he asked m

jldubb0626

Yes, I'd be mad. I'm sorry he's acting like this.

Amberrrr

This is pissing me off just reading it.

WTF.
I am sorry

pinkshades05

My heart breaks for you. I know the feeling; you don't feel missed and a bit taken for granted. Don't let his behavior make you feel this way! You are worth the time so take a moment, take your son to a nice restaurant to relax after you finish your homew

aracelyluna

I would be beyond pissed. DH has traveled for work since he started working. The first company he worked for, he worked there for 4 years, he traveled out of the country two weeks out of the month. This was part when we were engaged and then into our marr

michelle7482

I would be mad, not about him going to the bar, but that he doesn't check in and talk to you. He can find 10 mins to talk to his wife if he made it a priority. Sorry he's being a big time jerk.

2chatter

DH travels for work.  I have told him "I did not have time is BS.  What you are really saying is calling was not a priority.  If I have time to speak working full time and having three children you have time to speak just working in anot

suitern

DH travels alot and we used to have this problem frequently, particularly when we were just dating and engaged.  I had to explain to him that he couldn't simply go back to acting like a single guy just because he was with his buddies that were sin

Mar5195

I'd be upset. He's being selfish.