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IUI #4 = BFN WWTTC do?

Hi everyone, I haven't posted in a bit but I continue to lurk. Congratulations to those who've had some success and hugs to those who need them. Our fourth IUI was a bfn. The third one was a c/p. So far, I'm taking this BFN OK and we are planning on taking at least a cycle off.

 So here's my dilemma: On July 1st my insurance changes due to change of jobs. My current insurance covers 1/2 of one lifetime IVF. New insurance has no IVF coverage (but does cover at some percent 6 IUIs). If my insurance weren't changing, I would definitely be planning on trying more IUIs before IVF b/c the c/p gives me some hope - but I'm wondering should I take this opportunity to get one IVF in at 50% coverage? I'm also aware that even if we try to get an IVF cycle in before July 1 any number of things could happen to delay/cancel it. Any thoughts to help me and DH think through this one?

Me - 35. DH - 40. TTC #1 since 9/2010. 
IUI #1-2 BFN
IUI #3 BFP = C/P
IUI #4-6 BFNs
IVF #1 Lupron and Gonal F: 29R 29M 28F
2 blastocysts transferred 12/14/13
Beta at 9dp5dt = 285; Beta at 12dp5dt = 925
It's twins! EDD 9/2/14


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Re: IUI #4 = BFN WWTTC do?

  • Sorry about the bfn :

    If you've done 4 IUI I feel that's a solid effort and if your current insurance covers 1/2 of IVF I would totally give it a go.

    That's what I would do..... Good luck !

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  • So sorry # 4 was a BFN.  SO frustrating.  Thats a tough situation deciding what to do due to insurance.   Is there any way you could do one more IUI and then go into IVF?  I guess the timing for July 1st would be cutting it close. &nbs
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    DX: Unexplained
    6 Failed IUIs (Clomid and Gonal F).  
    IVF #1 began August 2013- BC, 4 days of Estrace, stimmed with Gonal F and Menopur, Ganirelix, 9R 5M 5F, Medrol and Doxycycline, 5 day transfer of 2 early blastocysts- good quality, Progesterone, Estrace, and baby aspirin, BETA on 9/20 BFN,   IVF #2 began September 2013, stimming with Gonal F (higher dose) and Menopur, Ganirelix, 18R 14M 9F with ICSI, 5 day transfer of 2 BBs one was starting to hatch, 2 frosties: 1  BB and 1 AC, BETA on 10/21, BFN BETA was a 5- chemical 
    Getting some more testing and trying to figure out what the issue is before FET in December, started acupuncture on 11/10, RLP and some other BW nothing major to report except slightly high Prolactin. Prolactin was slightly high when I started with my RE and I already had an MRI which was Neg.  Endo biopsy=negative.  WTF is wrong with us???
    12/18/13 FET of 1 BB and 1 AC.  Hoping for a miracle.  Beta 12/26 Low BETA-8 2nd BETA 5- chemical
    After 3 failed transfers IDK where to go from here.  Still no real answers as to why this isn't working.  Getting a second opinion in February and looking into immune testing.  
    2/14- NEW RE- Immune testing showed a partial dq alpha match with DH- On prednisone and did intralipids prior to transfer.  3/14 Lupron, gonal f, menopur, HGH.  ER 15 mature all 15 fertilized!  5dt of an early blast grade 1 and an expanded blast grade 2.  BETA on 4/21.  1 grade 2 embryo frozen
    BETA #1 59 BETA #2 148 BETA #3 283 BETA #4 2,783! US at 6w2d shows 1 bean measuring right on track! HR 121.  US at 8w3d measuring on track HR 177. Released form my RE.  EDD 12/28


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  • I agree with babydreams.  Talk to your RE.  It sounds tempting but half an IVF is still a lot of money.  Esp since you got a cp with a IUI.  It can work!  GL!
  • If it were me personally I would do the IVF. Although it is more expensive, even with 50% coverage, the success rates are also significantly higher than with IUI. I would jump at the opportunity to have any IVF coverage at all.  If you we


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  • Thanks everyone for the replies and support so far. It's giving me and DH a lot to think about. In addition to the money, I am scared about the impact of IVF on my body/mind. I guess another option for me (I think) would be to COBRA my current ins

    Me - 35. DH - 40. TTC #1 since 9/2010. 
    IUI #1-2 BFN
    IUI #3 BFP = C/P
    IUI #4-6 BFNs
    IVF #1 Lupron and Gonal F: 29R 29M 28F
    2 blastocysts transferred 12/14/13
    Beta at 9dp5dt = 285; Beta at 12dp5dt = 925
    It's twins! EDD 9/2/14


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  • I think if you feel you may not be mentally and physically up for it, then going with Cobra (if you can afford it) for a little while is the smartest choice.  I'd have the IVF consult now (or after one cycle break) to hear a little more on all it ent

    TTC since July 2009. Dx MFI & LPD. 
    IUI#1&2&3 (2011 & 2012) BFN
    IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
    IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
    IVF w/ICSI Oct. 2, 2012 - 13R, 11M, 7F, 1 frozen blast 4BB grade - - - FET Nov 15, 2013
    BFP! Beta 1:104 @ 10dp6dt, Beta 2:178 @ 12dp6dt,  beta 3:366 @ 14dp6dt
    Saw heartbeat twice before missed M/C at 8w3d on 12/27/13, missing my little angel boy
    JUNE 2014 IVF#2;  5R, 2M, 1F Three day transfer 6/7.  Beta 6/18 - BFN
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  • katib77 - thanks for your post. I do need to look at how much it costs to Cobra vs go on DH's insurance. Right now what I feel like I really need is a break and so does DH. It is so nice to talk with others who are going through similar things!
    Me - 35. DH - 40. TTC #1 since 9/2010. 
    IUI #1-2 BFN
    IUI #3 BFP = C/P
    IUI #4-6 BFNs
    IVF #1 Lupron and Gonal F: 29R 29M 28F
    2 blastocysts transferred 12/14/13
    Beta at 9dp5dt = 285; Beta at 12dp5dt = 925
    It's twins! EDD 9/2/14


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  • Sorry to hear about your BFN. I would go with the IVF since your insurance will cover half. Right now my insurance doesn't cover any related to IF and 50% sounds FANTASTIC to me! :o)
    Me 32/DH 38
    TTC since 05/2011
    HSG 07/2011 right tube blocked
    Clomid 50mg 3/2012 - no response
    Clomid 50mg 4/2012 - no response
    Met with RE 6/2012
    PCOS/IR diagnosed 6/2012
    Femura 5mg  9/2012 - no response
    Laparoscopy 12/2012 close off right tube
    Clomid 150mg 3/2013 - no response
    1st Follistim Cycle 7/16/2013 -  CD3-6 125iu; CD7-8 150iu; CD9-15 175iu; Trigger 8/1; IUI scheduled for 8/3/2013...BFN AF arrived 8-16-2013
    8/2013 cycle benched for cyst
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