I said differently, but truthfully, if something happened to my kids I don't know how I'd be able to carry on. If something happened to my DH, I think I'd be ok.
I said equally. I would feel tempted to say "my kids hand down" but honestly I am very very deeply in love with my DH and have a very hard time seeing a future without him...I don't think anyone could ever compare to DH. Same way I feel about my l kids except I am not "in love" with them.
Ditto grace. I could not imagine life w/out DH. In my eyes, he is not replaceable. He's the father of my child, my BF, my lover, everything. I could not say I love my child more; I love them both but it is such a different love one is not higher than the other, nor can they be compared. Apples. Oranges.
Re: POLL:
now that I see the other answers, I feel a little bad about my answer... ( my kids hands down..)
But I think it is true...I guess I just assumed it was more common..
Ditto.
Christmas 2011
This is my scenario for this question ---
If one of my children ever killed Joe, I *might* be able to forgive them.
If Joe every killed one of my children, I could NEVER forgive him!
I would say I love my kids more!