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Inviting work people

My mother in law is throwing a casual, coed barbecue-type baby shower for me in June. 

I work in a very small business with 9 employees (7 female). I am fairly close with all of them, and we've worked together for several years. I definitely plan to invite three of the women - my assistant, and two other teachers I've worked with closely and know personally.

My question is, should I invite them all? I am happy to invite them all, I like them, there's no conflicts, etc. What I'm more worried about is whether it's weird to invite my bosses, the secretary, etc. I just really don't know if they would come, or if this is the sort of thing you invite work people to? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Is there any reason NOT to invite all of my coworkers? Is there etiquette about this that I'm in the dark on? 

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    Are you actually friends w/ your bosses and the secretary?  If not, then no, don't invite them.

    Your having a child and your shower are personal events.  As such, you dont' have to (and shouldn't, really) invite everyone you work

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    My rule on work people is if I have your number in my cell and we talk and hang out outside of work, then you get invited
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    Do you know if your place of employment usually throws showers? My office will always do a shower and order in lunch for the moms. If that seems like a possibility, they'll all be at that event anyway. 

     

    If not, just invite the p

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    imagemsspeedymarie:

    You mention your assistant. Not sure how formal that title is, and if she works FOR you, but I've heard some pe

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