A voicemail finally

20thirteen

So BD has been calling me once a month the last couple of months, always from a number that wasn't his cell phone (I assume it has something to do with his new psychotic insecure girlfriend) but would never leave a voicemail. Tonight he called me (as is the new monthly ritual) from his parent's house. His voicemail was "my mom is knitting things... We should talk." I have nothing to say to him, all he's going to do is try to blame another person for his actions and still not accept responsibility. And I've already told his mom to tell him not to call me, I've told his friends to tell him. I think maybe now I should send a text to the new girl telling her to tell him to stop calling me. That would be hilarious if I felt mean enough. Just ugh. I'm so pissed. I don't know what to do, I don't want to fall into one of his traps. I feel like my only response to him should be "if you want to contact me, get a lawyer." Ugh. End rant.

amarie23c

 as a mother now your mindset should be "how is this benefiting my kids" He lost his chance and respect from you when he went and got a new gf and changed his pace with you.. Its pathetic to know a man will change to be with a women that he