I will not be able to attend my best friend's wedding in June because I a due 3 days before the wedding (and live out of state). I was talking with my mother about shower gifts and weddings gifts for my friend. She said that since I can't attend the wedding I am not suppose to send money, but to send a gift from her registry. I have already gotten her a vase and candlesticks for her shower in 2 weeks (both off registry as her registry was empty, I did make sure they were from a store she liked). What is proper? Do I send her a gift for the wedding itself (again not on registry) or should I send money?
Thanks for the help!
Re: Not Shower Related, but Wedding Question
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Well, maybe that percentage would be lower if you included a note with the money
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