Late Term and Child Loss

Anyone else do Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep photos?

God I hope this doesn't come across as ungrateful.. 

I just got some of my photos back from NILMDTS --and I'm heartbroken. Not just because of seeing my angel's face again, but because the quality isn't what I expected at all. I don't know if it's because I dabble in photography myself or if I just expected perfection, but I'm really sad at how these turned out. I don't see any that I could hang up in my home. It seems like it was amateur/bad editing or maybe it was the skill level of the photographer. I'm not sure, but just I'm really upset right now. 
Is it wrong for me to ask the photographer for uneditted versions? 

BFP # 1 11/2011, MC 12/2011 
BFP #2 11/2012, Delivered at 21 weeks on 3/16/13 due to complications with bilateral renal agenesis. 
~~Missing Astrid Lynne~~
BFP#3: 09/2013, EDD 5/14/14

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Re: Anyone else do Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep photos?

  • I'm so sorry you aren't very happy with the photos. That must be very upsetting.

    I didn't have photos taken, I wish I did, but I know some people who were also upset when the got the photos. They just didn't come out the way they had hoped.
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  • That makes me so sad you don't like them. Did you take any yourself? I'm guessing you or your family didn't take many because LMDTS was doing them. I cherish the photos the nurses took of my little girl. If I didn't have them I wouldn't have been able

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  • Yeah--we didn't take any or even have the nurses take theirs because we had them coming. I did decide to go ahead and email her to ask for originals too--hopefully she has them. I tried editing some myself and was able to get them a little better--good en
    BFP # 1 11/2011, MC 12/2011 
    BFP #2 11/2012, Delivered at 21 weeks on 3/16/13 due to complications with bilateral renal agenesis. 
    ~~Missing Astrid Lynne~~
    BFP#3: 09/2013, EDD 5/14/14

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  •  Im sorry you are unhappy with the way they turned out :(  You do not sound ungrateful. 

     I used them and am satisfied with the way they came out.

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  • She just emailed back. NILMDTS doesn't allow them to send unedited images. God I wish we had just the straight images. All of these photos have such a cloudy, hazy look. None are clear. 
    BFP # 1 11/2011, MC 12/2011 
    BFP #2 11/2012, Delivered at 21 weeks on 3/16/13 due to complications with bilateral renal agenesis. 
    ~~Missing Astrid Lynne~~
    BFP#3: 09/2013, EDD 5/14/14

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  • Really? My photographer sent me everything! Including the ones I wished he would have kept! That's really strange....maybe call the headquarters and talk with them?
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  • Same thing happened to us. We were under the impression that we would get all of the photos and they would retouch some but all we got was 20 retouched when she took photos for almost an hour! We were unhappy with the quality and the retouching, they m



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    Same thing happened to us. We were under the impression that we would get all of the photos and they would retouch

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    BFP #2 11/2012, Delivered at 21 weeks on 3/16/13 due to complications with bilateral renal agenesis. 
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    BFP#3: 09/2013, EDD 5/14/14

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  • Definitely call the headquarters! Did your photographer give you a site link to view all the pics?

    On a side note, my pics were in color and untouched.
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