Today I made it downtown to request the birth and death certificates. While I was down there I decided to stop over at the social security office to see if I could get that process started too. I told the guy I wanted the SSN for my children. He asked how old they were and when I responded that they had died about an hour after birth he acted like I was insane for requesting them. He said "well they aren't going to have them yet, did you apply for a birth certificate?" No "Im sorry" or even, "oh, let me see how I can help you", just plain annoyance that I was asking for them. I almost went into a rant about how when you lose a child you want everything you can possibly get that shows they existed, but I figured it was a lost cause.
TTC since May 2011
Provera x3 late 2011, no natural response. (Previous BCP for 12 years).
Dx PCOS April 2012.
Clomid x 4 - no response.
First FSH/Ovidrel cycle early Aug 2012 - 18 days of injections, slow growth, erratic estrogen levels, triggered Aug 21st.
BFP Sept 4th and Sept 7th!
7wk US Sept 28th - triplets!
Perfect triplets lost at 20 weeks due to incompetent cervix. Allison Grace, James Alexander and Colin Gregory forever in our hearts!
IVF #1 10/11/13 - canceled before retrieval.
IVF# 2 11/28/13 - retrieval on Turkey Day! Hyperstim - no transfer
FET #1 2/4/14 - miscarriage @ 9 weeks (Trisomy 6)
FET #2 6/8/14 - healthy normal baby! Due date 2/25/15