Not sure where I belong...

JennyLynne

Up until last week I was 21 weeks pregnant. After finding out that my baby had not developed kidneys, bladder, & renal arteries, I ended up delivering my sweet baby girl on Saturday. I posted my story on the miscarriage/pregnancy loss board, but was told that maybe I belonged here instead. I don't know where I fit in right now, honestly and I'm feeling lost. Friends have texted and called and I can't bring myself to answer the phone or respond. 
Here is a link to what I posted on the other board. Like I said, I'm not sure where I belong--if the loss board isn't it, please just let me know. 

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/72748809/ShowThread.aspx#72748809 

lenya_35

I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby girl Astrid.  I'm sending tons of hugs your way.  The ladies here are great and I hope we will be able to support you in any way we can.  I can relate to many parts of your story - the feeling

Carolee

I'm so sorry for the loss of your little girl.  I think you're in the right place here, and I hope you'll find this board to be a source of support to you.

HullGut

I am so sorry about your sweet baby girl. Just take it easy and be gentle with yourself. People need to understand that you need time to recover and accept what has happened. It is really hard to suddenly realize that plan is different than it was suppose

jess123456

I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your baby girl. You are definitely in the right place. This board is filled with amazing women who are so supportive and understanding. Please know that you aren't alone and we are always here for you.

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JennyLynne

Thank you ladies--I that makes me feel like I can breathe easier. I was hesitant to come back to the bump right away. I can't seem to find any other place like it though as far as active communities go. I have so many questions for you moms that have g

OSUWifey09

You are definitely in the right place. I lost my son at 34 weeks back in August, and I'm not sure I would've made it through without the support I've found on this board.

I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby girl; as others have said, pl

Noethola

So very sorry for the loss of your daughter Astrid. I hope that you are able to find comfort amongst us. Sometimes things can move a little slow on this board, but you are surrounded by mothers and fathers who know the pain of losing a beloved child.</

shandorfml2

You're in the right place. I recently lost my daughter, Anastasia. Astrid is a beautiful name, and I'm sure she was beautiful as well. Just go moment to moment, that is how I've survived the last three weeks.

Heatherhah

I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet daughter Astrid. I love her name as well. Hugs to you and I am happy that you have found us we are all here for you if and when you need us.

Heather

Poppy715

I'm so sad to see all the new moms who have had to join the board lately. This is the right place for you. I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I also lost a daughter in January.

Only answer your friends if you really want to. Don't feel

jebretz

Just wanted to say welcome, and I am so sorry for your loss.  As pp's said, take it easy on yourself and do what feels best for you, don't worry about the other people. I am so sorry you have to join, but this board is a great support.  Thoug

calibride2005

Im very sorry for your loss and you found the right place. This board is a great source for comfort.  ((hugs))

sand&starfish

I'm so sorry that you have to join us here, but hope that you will find some comfort. I lost my son at just under 24 weeks at the end of January. The very beginning was so rough, please try to be gentle with yourself and do what feels right and whatever m