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SaranJonathan
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Do I belong here?
SaranJonathan
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Here is a little background. We started TTC back in late 2008. I got pregnant with my first after a few months. Sadly that pregnancy ended in a chemical pregnancy. I got pregnant again and had a healthy uncomplicated pregnancy. That pregnancy was in 2009 and my DD was born in jan 2010. We decided we wanted to have another child. Again after only a few months of trying I got pregnant in December of 2012. Sadly I had a natural miscarriage. I had a gestational sac that measured at 5w3d and miscarried at 6w1d. I got pregnant again in February. I saw a heartbeat 2 weeks ago at 6w3d. Yesterday I went in again and no heartbeat and still measuring at 6w6d. I have a d&c scheduled for tomorrow morning. Clearly I don't have an issue getting pregnant but after 3 losses staying pregnant is difficult. Would you start testing with your OB? Call and get a RE appointment? I know something has to be wrong. Thanks so much for thoughts and/or advice. If I really should be on a different board please let me know. Thanks ladies.
BFP #1 4/6/09; EDD 12/6/09; miscarriage 4/10/09..............BFP #2 5/3/09; DD born 1/9/10........BFP #3 12/15/12, EDD 8/31/13; baby stopped growing at 5w3d; natural miscarriage..........BFP #4 2/8/13, EDD 10/20/13; missed miscarriage discovered 9w2d; d/c.......BFP #5 10/22/13, EDD 7/8/13; miscarriage 10/28/13..... BFP #6 11/19/13; DS born 7/29/14
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Re: Do I belong here?
First of all, I am so sorry you have gone through all of this. Many of us have had multiple losses, and they are each devastating. I've had four myself, and it's tough.
I would recommend talking to your OB and see if they think you sh
Me: 42. DH: 46.
1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.
2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.
3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.
4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.
5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.
Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN. After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.
August 16, 2013: BFP our first month of "not trying!" Still in shock. Beta #1 (14dpo): 183. Beta #2 (17dpo): 611. Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm!
Ultrasound 9/13/13: 8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
Baby is due 4/26/14
I am so sorry for your losses! I would talk to both your OB & consult with a RE. It would help to get a couple of opinions as many drs feel differently about RPL testing! My RE actually had me consult with a MFM as well to talk about using lovenox