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April Shower or May?

AllirojoAllirojo
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Hi Ladies!

I just got my calender from the RE nurse and my FET isn't scheduled until April 29 (tentatively).  It's so late in the month that now I'm wondering if I shouldn't be with the May cyclers because I wouldn't know the results until around May 10 when I had my beta drawn.  It seems like it's right on that line. What do you all think? 

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  • megs3084megs3084 member
    I think you can be both since you prep and transfer in april
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  • BootsOrHeartsBootsOrHearts member

    I always think you want to be with the group in the month you become pregnant, so that would be April. They'll still keep doing check-ins for a few months into May until everyone is done and has their results. But it's really up to you!

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  • HappyWifeMrsKHappyWifeMrsK
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    I always think you want to be with the group in the month you become pregnant, so that would be April. They'll

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  • flowerpower3flowerpower3 member
    I've been debating this, too.  If my cycle goes the same way it did last time, my ER will be on 4/30, making my ET in May.  I think I'm gonna stay April for now, since that's when all the preparation is gonna be done.
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  • AllirojoAllirojo
    I am going to stay with April, I'll be taking all the drugs that make me crazy in April and it's not like I can't share all the ups and downs just because my schedule takes me into May.  Thanks ladies!
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