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Need the Crazy Train!! BFP Ment. (not mine)/sensitive subject ment.

PatientlyWaiting10PatientlyWaiting10 member
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BFP ment/sensitive topics discussed (not mine) for those on mobile...

 

 

so yesterday at lunch one of my co workers came in and said "OMG I have to share this news with someone because I can't tell anyone else" and went on to say that one of her BFFs just told her she was pregnant.  She went on to tell us the whole story about the "father" is a loser and she's been bleeding for a month and is hoping she's having a m/c... she took the morning after pill and that's probably why.  CW kept talking about it and asking questions, to which I answered from my experiences but I don't think she ever got the hint that I've been there...  

CW just walked out on the phone and was asking "what was your number? 100 something? Oh that's really high"...  

I just feel like bawling at my desk right now...why is it those of us who SO badly want a child can't and then there are people all around us who don't want them and get them...  

Thanks for letting me vent ladies... and I'm sorry I'm such a downer...  like some PP have said lately, I'm in a funk and just can't shake it...   

BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days
BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

"Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?"
All are welcome!


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Re: Need the Crazy Train!! BFP Ment. (not mine)/sensitive subject ment.

  • km_mdkm_md member

    Sorry, I posted the train a little late today! 

    I'm really sorry that you are having to deal with that at work. It really is tough. Lots and lots of (((hugs))). It sucks feeling the way you do.  



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  • PatientlyWaiting10PatientlyWaiting10 member
    imagekm_md:

    Sorry, I posted the train a little late today! 

    I'm really sorry that you are having to deal with that at wo

    BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days
    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
    BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
    BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
    BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

    "Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?"
    All are welcome!


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  • krireckekrirecke

    Oh my goodness.  So so sorry you had to go through that.  Soooo many ((HUGS)).  I know how you feel.  I have a friend who is due on mother's day...completely unplanned...has had a perfectly healthy pregnancy, but I don't think she r

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  • Saritaota614Saritaota614 member

    Ugh.. It's just not fair!

    I too was having a hard day at work.. I ended up leaving work early today bc I was on the verge of tears..

    A very close friend of mine has been hiding that shes pregnant (she lives away) from me for 5 months... </

    Trying for our first since April 2011
    BFP 10/4/2012. Due 6/11/13. M/C 11/3/12
    Diagnosed Hypothyroidism 9/4/13
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  • Wifey xoWifey xo member

    Sorry love : (

    DH and I were sitting in our living room having a coffee the other morning and talked about how as our 40th birthday's approach, we just have so much love in our home and wonder if it will happen for us.

     

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  • PatientlyWaiting10PatientlyWaiting10 member

    Just so you all know, you all ROCK and I love you all!!  Smile (((huge HUGS)))!!!

    THANK YOU!! 

    BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days
    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
    BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
    BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
    BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

    "Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?"
    All are welcome!


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  • SnowflakeBride06SnowflakeBride06 member
    I am so sorry, how insensitive of your CW.  Seriously, some people just don't get it.  


     6/09 right tube loss (fallopian torsion) 12/09 BFP #1 (DD born 9/10)
    8/12 dx Lupus (ANA+/APA-), 12/12 BFP #2  natural m/c 6w 2d 
    TTC#2  since 9/12  50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #1 Beta 10/4=BFN
                                 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #2 Beta 11/1= BFN
                                      100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #3 Beta 12/26=BFFN
    100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #4 Beta 2/14= BFFN
    Took a LONG Break
    Lots of Luck and Love BFPB for life KOFMKG
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  • skeppler1skeppler1 member

    I am so sorry you had to go through that this morning  ((((HUGS))))

    I hope your day gets better

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    BFP#2 • 6/30/13 EDD 3/9/14...TWINS!! Baby A (BOY)-167 HB • Baby B (GIRL)-174 HB
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  • km_mdkm_md member
    imageMadisonpenny:

    **LO mentioned, not mine**

    I'm so sorry  your going through this. 

    I just came from a doct



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  • heather52904heather52904 member
    I'm sorry. It's just not fair. [HUGS]

    TTC Since 8/2011
    BFP #1 5/13/12 * EDD 1/24/13 * MC at 7 wks 4 days on 6/11/12
    BFP #2 5/13/13 * Current EDD 1/23/14

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  • anitafloraanitaflora member
    Aww honey, that just SUCKS. I'm so sorry. Sometimes the world just doesn't make sense. Huge hugs to you.

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     2.10.12 : 4 weeks


    6.17.12 : 10 weeks


    10.10.12 : 4 weeks, 6 days


    12.13.12 : 9 weeks, 1 day


    4.6.13 : 4 weeks, 4 days


    10.27.13 : 5 weeks, 6 days


    4.2.14 (IVF #1) : 4 weeks, 1 day


    6.19.14 : IVF #2 Negative


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  • PatientlyWaiting10PatientlyWaiting10 member
    imageMadisonpenny:
    imagekm_md:</
    BFP #1 October 2008 | m/c Thanksgiving weekend | November 2008 | 7 weeks 2 days
    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
    BFP #3 8/4/2009 | DD born 3/28/10 @ 38 weeks
    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
    BFP #7 10/15 | DS born 6/4/16 @ 36 weeks 
    BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

    "Dear Lord, I would have loved to have held my babies on my lap & tell them about you, but since I didn't get the chance, would you please hold them on your lap & tell them about me?"
    All are welcome!


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  • amberproamberpro member
    lots of (((((hugs))))  :(  That sucks that you had to deal with that conversation.  
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  • RedPhoenix625RedPhoenix625

    UUGGHH!  I'm sorry that happened, and about your funk.  Why is it that this type of stuff always seems to happen on days when we're already feeling so down?

    ((((hugs))))

    PAIF/SAIF, PGAL/PAL welcome.
    TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
    2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
    2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
    2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
    IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
    So lost.
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