So, sorry if this is TMI, but I had my 6 week PP checkup today and was cleared for sex. I had a c-section so I doubt much will feel differently to me but still have to ask. What was your first time after baby like?
Also a c-section mam here. First time hurt still but mostly because things were very um... tight? I second the lovely mama above me on the use lube comment. Be slow, make sure he takes good care of you before things get too crazy
We finally made it happen at seven weeks, and it went much better than I expected. No pain, although a bit of soreness after. FWIW, I had a vaginal birth with two first degree tears.
With DS1, I had a csection (but labored beforehand too) and things still hurt pretty badly. Everything was very, very dry for about a year and half too due to breastfeeding. Make sure you have lots of lube on hand beforehand. This bab
That's what I thought after my c/s with DD1, too - nothing happened down there (I never labored), so things would be fine, right? Wrong. Even with lube, it felt like sandpaper and I couldn't let him finish it hurt so badly. I was still pumping at the time
BFP1: DD1 born April 2011 at 34w1d via unplanned c/s due to HELLP, DVT 1 week PP
BFP2: 3/18/12, blighted ovum, natural m/c @ 7w4d BFP3: DD2 born Feb 2013 at 38w4d via unplanned RCS due to uterine dehiscence
Re: Back in the sack...what to expect?
First round of Clomid in May 2012= BFP #1, DD born January 2013
BFP #2 in January 2014, DS born September 2014
With DS1, I had a csection (but labored beforehand too) and things still hurt pretty badly. Everything was very, very dry for about a year and half too due to breastfeeding. Make sure you have lots of lube on hand beforehand. This bab
This!
BFP1: DD1 born April 2011 at 34w1d via unplanned c/s due to HELLP, DVT 1 week PP
BFP3: DD2 born Feb 2013 at 38w4d via unplanned RCS due to uterine dehiscence